Seventy-three and eighty-four, the King of Hell did not invite me to go. The meaning of this sentence is to tell those elderly people that if you reach this age, you may have to meet the Lord of Hell. Therefore, when the elderly reach their old age, the most important thing is ho

Seventy-three and eighty-four The King of Hell did not invite me to go. The meaning of this sentence

is to tell those elderly people that if you reach this age, you may have to meet the Lord of Hell .

Therefore, when the elderly reach their later years, the most important thing is how to arrange their life in their later years and how to extend their life.

Some elderly people say that they can rely on their sons or daughters to provide for them in their later years; some elderly people say that they can hire a nanny to take care of themselves; some elderly people directly say that they can go to a nursing home to take care of themselves. It can be said that such ideas are diverse.

It is said that it is a matter of course that your children take care of themselves in old age. What should you do if your children and you have a generation gap, have been together for a long time, and have quarrels?

Nannying for elderly care requires you to have a certain financial strength. Without financial strength, a nanny will not come to take care of you.

Nursing homes for the elderly. To be honest, the quality of service there is really not as good as you imagine.

Then these old people will ask the editor, if you say this is not good, that is not good, how old are they? How can we spend our old age peacefully?

Don't worry, please pay attention to the editor, and ask me to tell you a real retirement secret for the elderly.

This old man is 83 years old this year. His name is Zhang Hai, and he is an authentic Henan native. Uncle Zhang’s tips for caring for the elderly are: first, don’t rely on your children to support your elderly; second, don’t rely on nannies; third, don’t rely on nursing homes. Finding a like-minded friend to care for in retirement is both worry-free and joyful.

Uncle Zhang was a middle school teacher when he was young. Now he is retired at home and his monthly pension is more than 4,000 yuan.

As for the money, it is neither too much nor too little. It is enough to cover my daily living expenses. And you can save some money for your own retirement.

So Uncle Zhang has always been full of confidence in his later life.

Uncle Zhang thought that he was old, and with his pension, he could spend the rest of his life with his wife.

Uncle Zhang said: The relationship between me and my wife has always been very harmonious. I have always let her do everything for half my life, so I have a husband-to-wife partner.

The love between the two of us can be said to make the neighbors, relatives and friends feel special envy.

Among Uncle Zhang’s students, some often ask for ways for husbands and wives to live harmoniously together.

Uncle Zhang said happily: In the years since I retired at home, I have indeed lived a happy and wonderful time with my wife.

Uncle Zhang gets up very early every day. After washing, his wife has already prepared the meals early.

Although we are an elderly couple, our love is no less warm and romantic than that of young people.

Uncle Zhang originally thought that when he reached the age of Xiyanghong, he would spend the rest of his life with his wife.

But life, old age, sickness and death are something that no one can stop.

My wife was suffering from terminal cancer and died soon after.

The death of his wife completely broke Uncle Zhang's original plans and arrangements. As a result, he had to re-plan his sunset life.

Some old people say, Uncle Zhang, you can let your children support you in your old age!

To be honest, it simply doesn’t work to let your children support you in old age.

Because the family conditions of Uncle Zhang’s son and daughter are not as good as his own. Besides, if you count on the children, it’s totally unreliable.

Although his son also lives in the city, he also has two children, and the pressure at home is too great.

My son is busy at work every day. He either works overtime or extends his working hours on weekdays, without even a day off. With the money his son earns, he and his family are considered happy to be able to take care of him.

Let’s talk about my daughter. She is married in Zhejiang, so far away from her daughter’s home. Even if her daughter is willing to support you in old age, she is not willing to live in a strange city.

Besides, I simply cannot adapt to the living habits in the South.

Going to his son's home to take care of his old age may be a drag on his son. I can't adapt to going to my daughter's house for retirement.

What's more, I am an old man who can't leave my hometown. How can I abandon my hometown?

Uncle Zhang thought to himself, since he does not rely on his children to support his old age, he should go to a nursing home to take care of his old age. After all, there are professionals there to take care of you in your retirement.

However, when Uncle Zhang filled in the check-in information, he realized that he had imagined this place too wonderfully.

There is also a chain of contempt here. Some elderly people bully new elderly people who have just arrived, and some elderly people bully those who have no children to visit them.

Unfortunately for me, I have completely fulfilled these two conditions.

The elderly in the hospital often bully Uncle Zhang. Even the caregivers often make things difficult for him when they know that he is an old man with no children to look after him.

An elderly person in the same dormitory said to Uncle Zhang, if you can give red envelopes to the nursing staff, they will definitely treat you better.

Uncle Zhang said that the little money he had was not enough for his own expenses, so how could he have the money to send red envelopes to them.

Even if there were, it would not contribute to the spread of unhealthy tendencies in nursing homes.

Due to Uncle Zhang's stinginess, he lost a lot of weight not long after he stayed in the nursing home.

After one year, Uncle Zhang became an old man with a sallow complexion and thin muscles.

He thought to himself that he could no longer live in this place. If he continued like this, he would not come here to enjoy happiness, but come here to suffer.

Uncle Zhang knew that the nursing home was really not suitable for him to retire here anymore. So, he left this ghost place.

Uncle Zhang went to the housekeeping service department again. He wanted to hire a nanny to take care of him. When he learned the details of housekeeping services, he was dumbfounded. The little money he had was simply not enough to hire a nanny.

So, I left the housekeeping service department in despair.

The children have no hope, the nursing home cannot adapt, and the nanny cannot afford it.

When Uncle Zhang was at a loss, he suddenly had an idea and thought, why not find a like-minded friend and help him in retirement? After

had this idea, he began to ask to see if there were any elderly people around him who could help each other and provide for the elderly together.

It just so happens that one of Uncle Zhang’s colleagues was also a teacher in the past. Her name is Xiaoyan, and she is two years younger than Uncle Zhang.

Her wife passed away a few years ago, so Uncle Zhang told Xiaoyan his thoughts to see if she agreed with him. What

didn't expect was that this woman actually agreed with Uncle Zhang's idea.

Xiaoyan is willing to support each other in old age with Uncle Zhang in a unique way.

Now, the two of them have been supporting each other for more than a year. They are in love with each other, there is no bump in the road, and their life in Sunset Red is boundless happiness.

Uncle Zhang and Xiaoyan both live on the AA system. Paying 2,000 yuan a month is enough for them to live. It’s more cost-effective than hiring a nanny, happier than living in a nursing home, and more considerate and caring than having children. This kind of mutual aid and elderly care method that kills three birds with one stone is really good.

Since the two of them took care of each other in old age, Uncle Zhang has also been very diligent. When Xiaoyan is cooking, Uncle Zhang is responsible for washing the dishes and washing the pots.

When Xiaoyan was cooking, Uncle Zhang was responsible for picking and washing vegetables.

The two old people were talking and laughing together. Life was no longer boring. There was sunshine and laughter.

The two of them often buy groceries, run, watch movies, take walks together, and spend their free time growing flowers and vegetables at home. The most important thing about

is not these, but that they all take care of each other.

For example, you fainted at home, and there was no one to help you up.

is doing well now, and they are inseparable from each other.

Xiaoyan will go to Uncle Zhang’s house on time every day to cook and support each other.

In the eyes of outsiders, the two of us seem to be a couple. In fact, the two of us have not crossed any boundaries at all.It’s just a pure way of supporting each other in old age.

In the words of Uncle Zhang, he has struggled for so many years and tried many ways to support the elderly, but this is the first time he has tried the new method of mutual assistance for the elderly.

Anyway, the two of us have been living together for more than a year, and our life is better than Mitiao.

hopes that this new way of mutual care for the elderly can be promoted. It is really economical and affordable, and can also extend your life.

[Editor’s words]: This new way of mutual care for the elderly is really worth promoting. It can be said that Uncle Zhang’s three tricks will make your sunset-red life more enjoyable and bring you boundless happiness!

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