It is said that it takes ten years to cultivate in the same boat and a hundred years to cultivate and sleep together. In this materialistic world, it is so difficult to meet someone who sincerely treats you well and who you truly love. But life is always accompanied by fights, and the same is true for relationships. No relationship can be without quarrels. I have always felt that the best state of a relationship is not to never quarrel but to let it go after the quarrel, because although a relationship without quarrels and mutual tolerance gives people the feeling of respecting each other, it still lacks some fireworks. But one careless move in a quarrel can lead to a complete breakup, so what should you pay attention to when quarreling?
1. Let go of face in quarrels with only each other
In fact, many times we know who is right and wrong during the quarrel, but we are always unwilling to lower our heads for the so-called face, and this is sometimes fatal.
2. Never quarrel overnight
Sometimes the dispute is not a big deal, and it is more beneficial to both parties to resolve it immediately. On the contrary, if the time drags on for a long time, the gap between each other will become wider, which will lead to a bigger rift, and eventually leading to a breakup.
3. The past cannot be recalled
Constantly going over old scores is a taboo in a quarrel. This will make small things continue to ferment and become bigger. Even if the relationship appears to be relaxed afterwards, the rift will be irreparable - because the other party knows that this time You will still bring it up next time, and the cracks will only get bigger and bigger until they are irreparable.
4. Do not attack personally
Personal attacks are another taboo in quarrels. This will fundamentally undermine the confidence of the other party, and will change the nature of the problem from things to people. This will undoubtedly kill the enemy by one thousand and damage yourself by eight hundred. s method.
