Some people say that morality is like a person's soul. A person without a soul has no life at all. In fact, morality is a stone that knocks out the fire of hope; morality is a fire that lights the lamp of hope; morality is a lamp that illuminates. The road of life; morality is the road that guides people to glory. The code of morality is a bridge built on good relationships between people. If you don't have morality, then you can only attract the disgust of others.
No, a young and beautiful woman expressed her grievances when she met the reporter: I am three months pregnant. I couldn’t reach an agreement with my boyfriend because of the bride price, and then he said he didn’t want the child. Now They don’t want me anymore. I want a gift of 100,000 yuan, but they are unwilling to give it.
It is understood that the woman’s name is Hu Ting (pseudonym), 30 years old. In fact, she and her boyfriend Jin Qiang (pseudonym) broke up after being in a relationship for half a year. A year after the breakup, Jin Qiang found Hu Ting again to seek peace, and then the two The two lived together that day and entered into the process of discussing marriage.
Hu Ting's mother said that her daughter had been vomiting at home for two months at that time. After careful questioning, she found out that her daughter was pregnant. The man's attitude was that he wanted the child for a while, and then said he didn't want the child, and even wanted to give birth to the child. If so, they would let the daughter pay the child support herself, but they didn't care. In the end, they said they would give her a compensation of 50,000 yuan, but they haven't seen a penny yet.
After listening to the descriptions of the mother and daughter, the reporter believed that since the woman was pregnant, the man must be responsible. In order to find out the truth of the matter, the reporter followed Hu Ting to the man's home.
However, when the two parties met, Jin Qiang's face was very ugly. He said angrily, why don't I want her anymore? Do you want me to play a recording for you?
While talking, Jin Qiang took out his mobile phone and played a recording. He bluntly said that the answers were all in the recording. It turned out that not long ago, Jin Qiang called Hu Ting at around 2 o'clock in the morning. What he didn't expect was that, The person who answered the phone turned out to be a man, which shocked Jin Qiang. He thought Hu Ting had cheated on her.
Hu Ting quickly explained that she had not cheated on her. The phone was not in her hands at the time, but in the hands of a friend of a friend.
Obviously, Hu Ting's explanation was unconvincing, let alone the person involved, Jin Qiang. He asked Hu Ting, at 2:30 in the morning, would your phone be in the hands of another man? You couldn't speak clearly at that time.
Hu Ting also explained that she had a boyfriend at that time. This statement made Jin Qiang very angry. She never told me that she already had a boyfriend. If I knew that she had a boyfriend, I would I won’t touch her at all. She has a boyfriend, so who am I? Is this child mine?
Jin Qiang said that he is also 30 years old. Because his parents hope that he can get married and start a family early, he has been in love with Hu Ting before, which can be regarded as a relationship foundation. After confirming their relationship with Hu Ting again on the 13th, he took his parents with him on the 20th. I went to Hu Ting's house to discuss the bride price. If I don't believe it, let Hu Ting's brother tell me whether this happened.
The younger brother admitted that this was indeed the case. At that time, he also hoped that his sister could be with Jin Qiang.
The reporter also asked Hu Ting, since you already have a boyfriend, why do you still want to talk to Jin Qiang about the 100,000 yuan gift?
Hu Ting said that she was pregnant at the time, but when the conversation changed, Hu Ting pointed the finger at Jin Qiang again. She said that Jin Qiang was also unfaithful in this relationship. He now has a girlfriend. Just found a new home.
Jin Qiang was very angry. In short, as a woman, she should have the most basic morals, but she didn't even have the most basic morals.
While talking, Jin Qiang asked his father to pull out a guarantee letter from his mobile phone. It turned out that the two parties had agreed that the child was unwanted, so Jin Qiang's family paid Hu Ting 5,000 yuan for the surgery. In the guarantee letter, Hu Ting A clear guarantee that I will never have anything to do with Jin Qiang in the future, nor will I come to Jin Qiang again.
But the fact is that after giving the money, the child is still there and has not been aborted. Hu Ting also went to Jin Qiang’s family again and again to ask for compensation. She even came to make trouble during the Chinese New Year, which caused Jin Qiang’s family to have a bad year. , that is to say, Jin Qiang found a girlfriend after it was clear that they broke up and no longer had a relationship, so there was no issue of disloyalty.
Hu Ting admitted that she did receive 5,000 yuan, but she was forced to write the guarantee letter out of desperation, and the 5,000 yuan was also spent in the hospital. After all the money was spent, the child had no money to solve the problem.
In order to prove that what she said was true, Hu Ting brought the examination report done in the hospital. It turned out that Hu Ting had some inflammation and could not undergo any surgery until the inflammation was cured. She spent the 5,000 yuan on the examination. Regarding the body and the treatment of inflammation, there is no money to deal with the child's affairs now.
Now that the matter is over, the reporter also asked Hu Ting how she wants to solve it now. If Jin Qiang is still willing to accept you, would you be willing?
Hu Ting said that it was okay. If Jin Qiang was unwilling to accept it, then he would have to give me some compensation. Anyway, he also said that he did not want to be with me and he already had a girlfriend.
Jin Qiang’s mother took over. She was very willing to let Hu Ting marry into this family before. Her son was already 30 years old, and she was very happy to be a grandma, but the house had just been built and she didn’t have much money. When their family discussed the betrothal gift, they said that one hundred thousand yuan should not be less than a penny. What could they do if they didn’t have so much money?
After hearing this, Hu Ting's attitude was still firm. She still wanted the bride price. It wouldn't be a penny less than one hundred thousand yuan. If they couldn't come up with it, forget it and just give me compensation.
The reporter felt that Hu Ting's idea was too extreme. She did not see her sincerity in the marriage. Her husband's house had been built, and it was only a son. Now it was okay to get a gift of 50,000 to 60,000 yuan.
But Hu Ting was unwilling to accept it. She shed tears of grievance. I didn’t want him to get money at the beginning, I just wanted his attitude.
Jin Qiang on the side was very angry again. If this matter hadn't happened, she and I would have become husband and wife long ago. It was because of the matter of answering the phone that we couldn't help it.
Jin Qiang also expressed his attitude to reporters in private, I don’t want this woman anymore, I will not be with her, even if I can barely get married, I am destined not to be happy, but for the child in Hu Ting’s belly, money is not enough He didn't want to care who it was, and he was willing to compensate Hu Ting to get rid of the entanglement.
At this time, Hu Ting put forward her own request. She could solve the child's matter, and she only needed 20,000 yuan from the man to compensate her.
Jin Qiang's family also accepted this request, but they had already given 5,000 yuan before, so they hoped to deduct it from the 20,000 yuan and only give Hu Ting 15,000 yuan.
However, Hu Ting was unwilling. She said that what she wanted at that time was 50,000 yuan in compensation, but now the 20,000 yuan is based on the 5,000 yuan already given. Anyway, 20,000 yuan is not enough. few. The reporter
was also very helpless. Either you stipulated that it would be 50,000 or 50,000, and no less should be paid. This matter needs to be negotiated. The compensation given is nothing more than the cost of surgery, lost work time and nutrition. Can it reach 50,000? ? You've already received 5,000 yuan, and you can give me another 15,000 yuan. You'll pay 100 yuan a day for lost work time.
No matter how much she was persuaded, Hu Ting was unwilling to back down. Seeing the resolute Hu Ting, the Jin Qiang family was afraid of long nights and dreams, so they made a concession, but the prerequisite was that they needed to go to the hospital together, and then their family paid the fee, and the matter was resolved. , whatever was left of the 20,000 yuan was given to Hu Ting, and Hu Ting expressed her acceptance with tears.
The incident is over now. It has to be said that the two of them separated and reunited. Although they dated twice, the time they spent together was not as long as the time they broke up. Thinking about it, it makes people feel sad. So sad.
As the old saying goes, a good horse never turns back. In fact, after breaking up, there is really no need to look back. After all, it is no longer appropriate to break up. If you look back, the chance of breaking up will still be high.
However, many people find after searching around that their ex is more suitable for them, but even if they want to get back together, they can't treat marriage as a child's play. They still need to understand what they need to know again. Hasty relationships are definitely unstable, and they still have to understand. He will accidentally become a receiver.
This is the case for Jin Qiang. If it hadn't been for that phone call, he would have married Hu Ting long ago. In this way, Jin Qiang would have suffered more losses. Speaking of which, he was both lucky and unfortunate.
As for Hu Ting, I hope she can understand that it is really disgusting for a girl to have self-respect and self-love and make herself look nondescript.
What do you think about this? Everyone is welcome to express their opinions and give different voices, thank you.
