How selfish can a person be?
The couple had been divorced for 10 years. The husband suddenly suffered a stroke, which made eating and daily life inconvenient. The ex-wife couldn't bear it and stayed to take care of her husband. For ten years, the husband let his ex-wife sleep in an attic that was no bigger than a bathroom. He even hid Cary’s hundreds of thousands of pensions from his ex-wife.
In the past ten years, the husband has always believed that it was right for his wife to stay and take care of him. In the end, the reason why his wife gave up and left was because his ex-wife failed to cook a bowl of medicine and the husband strangled his ex-wife's neck.
Four months later, the old man regretted that he did not have the care of his ex-wife. He said that he ate noodles and dumplings for four months because southerners were not used to eating pasta and the like. He very much hoped that his ex-wife could follow him. Remarry yourself and come back to take care of yourself and cook your favorite meals.
But the husband tried his best to find his wife’s contact information, and when he called his son’s phone number, the son didn’t tell him. For this reason, he reluctantly asked reporters to help persuade his ex-wife to remarry him.
When the reporter came to Uncle Chen’s home, he did not realize the mistakes in his words and deeds. Uncle Chen said that he still loves his wife, and his demands are not high now. He just needs to come back to help with the laundry and cooking. It costs 3,000 yuan to hire a nanny outside, and he would rather give the 3,000 yuan to his ex-wife.
The reporter said that his ex-wife had been divorced for ten years. Taking care of him in these ten years was purely out of her kindness. The two were divorced and she had no obligation to take care of Uncle Chen.
Uncle Chen thinks that hiring a nanny costs money, but his ex-wife has taken care of him for ten years and she knows his tastes and temper. Instead of hiring a nanny, it is better to give her the money and have a room for her. The reporter then went to the room that Uncle Chen mentioned, observed it, and sighed: "If your wife can live in this room, it can only prove that she loves you to death."
It turns out that the room that Uncle Chen mentioned belongs to the house. The attic was originally a utility room. The reporter opened the door and squeezed in sideways. There were no windows in the room, it was damp and dark, and no one could stand up straight. Except for a children's bed , there was no place for anyone to stand.
This shows how selfish this old man is. He sleeps in a big bed and lets his ex-wife sleep in an attic with no ventilation. For ten years, his ex-wife, who took good care of him, refused to pay him a penny and even often abused him domestically.
Regarding Uncle Chen’s thoughts, the reporter said that firstly, legally speaking, his ex-wife has no obligation to take care of him anymore; secondly, his ex-wife was beaten away by Uncle Chen, and now if she comes back to live in such a loft, she will definitely not come back. of.
Uncle Chen replied confidently, that's why I asked you to come over and help me think of a way and help negotiate how to solve the problem.
He said that he has a son who is over 40 years old, but he has never fulfilled his responsibility to support the elderly. He has only visited him a handful of times over the years, and every time he comes, he always brings something he doesn’t like to eat. There is nothing to talk about between father and son, and they often quarrel after just two sentences.
The reporter decided to call Uncle Chen’s son first to find out the specific situation.
But Uncle Chen’s son became extremely excited when he heard that his father wanted to remarry his mother. He said something that even reporters found difficult to accept. Uncle Chen's son said: "My mother divorced him, but she still took care of him for ten years, and she lived in the attic. This house still belongs to my mother. After taking care of him for ten years, she just wanted to strangle him because of one word." Damn me . "
The reporter never expected that Uncle Chen's ex-wife had been living in that dark and damp attic for ten years. She asked the reporter for help, but she didn't tell the truth, which made the reporter a little disgusted. Uncle Chen said that it was impossible for him to give his mother's contact information, let alone allow them to remarry.
Uncle Chen saw that his concealment made the reporter a little angry, so he explained that he had indeed touched his wife before. Because of a problem with cooking medicine, he strangled his wife's neck.But now he also regrets that he really deserves to be in this situation. As long as his ex-wife can agree to take care of him, he will hand over all his retirement salary.
Seeing Uncle Chen's sincere attitude in admitting his mistakes, the reporter decided to find his son to discuss the matter first. The reporter was surprised again when he saw Uncle Chen's son and the other party produced a recording. The recording content of
shows: , whether you come or not, I will find a solution. You have only one way, go to court and sue me. I tell you to get an appraisal done to identify our father-son relationship .
This is a recording of a conversation between Uncle Chen and his son. Xiao Chen said that his father often violently abused his mother. He would write a letter of guarantee every time, but he would still do it next time. He could not remember how many letters of guarantee he had at home. Seeing that his kind mother was often beaten, Xiao Chen was furious and wanted nothing to do with his father.
Because his son did not support him, the two often quarreled. When he was angry, Uncle Chen wanted to do a paternity test with his son. He felt that if his son did not support him, he must not be his own.
The reporter persuaded Xiao Chen that Uncle Chen is your father after all. Not supporting the elderly is legally and morally unjustifiable. Moreover, now that the elderly has suffered a stroke and is paralyzed, he has to find a way to solve the problem. After patient persuasion by reporters, Xiao Chen said that his father's proposal to remarry was unrealistic, and all he could do now was send his father to a nursing home.
However, after hearing that his son wanted to send him to a nursing home, Uncle Chen immediately objected, and then made another shocking statement. He told himself that he had a daughter, and if he was sent to a nursing home, he would go find her to support her. When the reporter asked him why his daughter did not come to take care of him, Uncle Chen hesitated and said that he could not be contacted.
It turns out that Uncle Chen got married again after his divorce, but after suffering a stroke and hemiplegia, his second wife and daughter left him, and he could not be contacted.
Seeing Uncle Chen's confident attitude, the reporter criticized him and told him that because of his attitude, his family ignored him and the only place that could take care of him now was a nursing home.
After the reporter’s earnest persuasion, Uncle Chen finally agreed to live in a nursing home, but there was one requirement: he had to live in a single room and could not live with others. When the reporter persuaded Uncle Chen to live a life as rich as he had and not to increase the financial burden on his son, he said that he still had more than 300,000 yuan in retirement salary.
The reporter was silent, and so was Xiao Chen. Neither he nor his mother knew that his father still had so much money, and his mother had taken care of him for so many years. This selfish father did not say anything, let alone support his son's career. But the matter was finally resolved, and he didn't have to worry about his father's affairs.
I wonder if you think this old man is pitiful?
