Being alone in this society seems to be more often regarded as withdrawn. It was only with the outbreak of the single wave in recent years that people gradually recognized it as just a way of life.

Being a loner seems to be more often regarded as withdrawn in this society. It was only with the outbreak of the singles trend in recent years that people gradually recognized it as just a way of life. It's like everyone has a different definition of happiness. Some people think that having enough food, clothing, and warmth is a happy life; while others think that doing things you like and gaining spiritual satisfaction is happiness; some even think that you must Continuously making money and achieving the material pursuits you want is happiness. The so-called happiness differs from person to person, and so does being alone.

Perhaps, a few years ago, I had longed for the happiness of having two people, but it was hard to find a close friend, and love was unpredictable. As I grew older, my attitude toward this became meaningless.

The many benefits of living alone ultimately outweigh the universal demands of finding a partner.

We have more time to do what we want to do, such as reading, writing, watching movies, photography, traveling... I remember that in the past few years, I had always declared that I would not get married. The purpose was still because unimportant people cared too much about others. life to the point of affecting one's own comfort. In the past two years, people seem to be paying extra attention to marriage and themselves, thinking that getting married and having children will only bring disaster, not joy. If you think about it carefully, there are two extremes.

Not getting married or having children is a choice. If you want to form your own family and give birth to the next generation, it is also a choice. The focus is on the choice you make, rather than succumbing to the demands of others. This is the general trend of society.

I remember saying to my mother: If you can't meet the person you like in your life, then you will never get married; if you do, you will get married immediately, even if it is just a few months.

Our generation is no longer willing to be bound by traditional ideas, but dares to resist, dare to choose, and dare to face all changes in the future calmly.

We know very well that life is like a flowing river, which can be long and slow or rough. Only by constantly improving ourselves and cherishing the life in front of us, no matter what we encounter in the future, we can all say, although it is regrettable, I will never regret. After all, "all our lives, we want to get rid of other people's expectations and find our true selves," wrote Wu Qisi.