Another truth about marital cheating: is not only addicted, but also won’t let her husband touch it!
All good-looking skins are the same, but interesting souls are unique.
The biggest difference between love and marriage is that the former is among millions of people. , to choose the right person to get married, and the latter is that after entering the marriage, no matter how brilliant the colorful world outside is, there is only room for one person in the heart.
The bottom line of marriage is absolute loyalty. The so-called sincerity for sincerity. If you make a mistake and you can forgive it, then a loyal marriage becomes worthless. If no one restrains themselves, the marriage will be chaotic.
The wife slept with someone else, and the husband "refunded" 20,000 yuan
Event review: The beautifully dressed woman in front of her is named Wang Shanshan (pseudonym), she is 27 years old, and the busy man beside her is her husband Qian Weili (pseudonym); Her husband was born in a rural family. Because he can endure hardships, the couple’s combined monthly income is tens of thousands of yuan;
It stands to reason that Qian Weili has worked for ten years and has hundreds of thousands in savings. However, the savings in the bank card are not much now, and even the marriage is now in danger.
When the mediator came to the couple, his wife Wang Shanshan confessed to the mediator on the spot that she had betrayed the marriage: "I made a mistake. I had a relationship with another man."
After hearing Wang Shanshan's confession, the mediator felt Very surprised, because usually people who have extramarital affairs will feel ashamed of themselves and will never admit it. However, when the mediator asked Wang Shanshan why she talked about extramarital affairs so easily,
Wang Shanshan once again said shockingly: "I'm not afraid anymore. , my heart is bright.” I dared to say it.
At this moment, the busy husband Qian Weili said: "She said that if you have someone you like outside, you can do this."
Literally, if Qian Weili has a woman he likes outside, betrayal is also allowed. Marriage, having an affair; such a couple, such a marriage, I'm afraid the audience rarely sees it.
Then, her husband Qian Weili said angrily: "My wife slept with someone, but I was imprisoned for more than ten days and paid 20,000 yuan."
After hearing Qian Weili's words, the mediator was stunned. His wife was slept with, and it was good that she didn’t ask for any money, so why did she still pay 20,000 yuan? Under subsequent questioning, the couple told the story of the cause and effect of the matter.
It turns out that one time, my wife Wang Shanshan had an affair with someone else’s husband in a hotel, and was caught by the other person’s wife. Afterwards, my wife Wang Shanshan and the wife of the “third party” got into a fight. The women fought, and the two parties pulled each other’s hair. He is not forgiving with his words.
At that time, her husband Qian Weili couldn't stand it anymore. Seeing that his wife was being bullied, he helped his wife teach the wife of the "third party" a lesson. Because he was not careful in his actions, he sent the other party's wife to the hospital and asked for compensation. +The fight cost a total of 20,000 yuan.
It is not difficult to see that Qian Weili loved his wife Wang Shanshan. However, after the incident, his wife did not repent or return to the family. Instead, she continued to live with other men outside and bought all daily necessities such as pots and pans.
So, as a wife, Wang Shanshan, why did she refuse to change despite repeated admonitions, give up a complete family, and betray her marriage?
Regarding this issue, my wife Wang Shanshan explained: "He didn't give me a penny in the past two months. ”
To be honest, if you betray your marriage for this reason, you will obviously not be able to convince the public.
| The wife claims she doesn’t want a man, but the husband: If you have enough to eat outside, you won’t want a man at home
Just when the wife was defending her cheating, her husband Qian Weili pointed out a key point in the breakdown of the marriage.
Qian Weili said to the mediator: "She and I are so young, and we need to live together. I just need to touch her at night, and she immediately runs to another room and sleeps in a separate bed with me. She tells me, It’s okay if she doesn’t want a man.”
As soon as she finished saying this, Qian Weili became more arrogant and said angrily: “It’s okay if you don’t want a man, but you don’t want to steal a man. If you’re full outside, you won’t want one at home.”
Regarding her husband’s remarks, his wife Wang Shanshan did not feel ashamed at all, but took it for granted. Her attitude seemed to be saying, “I just like people from outside, what can you do to me?”
Seeing the wife’s attitude, the mediator He quickly asked Wang Shanshan whether she respected her husband in her heart. After hearing this, Qian Weili immediately interjected. He claimed that his wife did not feel guilty at all for what he had done, but had once done so in front of the neighbors. Ling Ju said that she only had the "third party" in her heart, and it was she who had caused the "third party" to suffer.
However, Wang Shanshan’s only excuse for her crime made people turn to her side. Wang Shanshan revealed that her husband Qian Weili loved playing cards and had lost six to seven hundred thousand in playing cards over the years.
In this regard, Qian Weili also admitted the facts stated by his wife.
Subsequently, his wife Wang Shanshan said that since last year, she has cut off contact with the "third party" and wants to return to the family and give her son a complete home. However, her husband's attitude is still very cold and he often treats her about her cheating. The verbal sarcasm and insults made her feel very chilled.
After hearing his wife’s accusation, her husband Qian Weili said dissatisfied: “I have been married to her for 13 years, and she told me herself that the third party is a hundred times a thousand times better than me, and she still called that man baby, but she didn’t call him baby for 13 years. Once, she didn't treat me as her husband, so I wouldn't treat her as my wife. For so many years, she didn't even say the words "I love you" to me. Aren't I heartbroken?"
Secondly, money Weili also revealed that when his wife was in good terms with a third party, breakfast would always be delivered to the other party's bedside. It could be said that she loved him in every possible way. On the other hand, his wife had not treated Qian Weili once in 13 years.
It is true that love is mutual and hurt is mutual, and each has its own reasons. However, cheating is stepping on the red line of marriage. Doesn't it mean that you forgive it?
In the end, even under the mediation of the mediator, Qian Weili was still unwilling to forgive his wife, nor was he willing to accept his wife's return to the family. Even if he was seventy or eighty years old and closed his eyes, he would not forgive his wife.
The author’s emotional summary
To be honest, after watching this episode of the mediation program, I personally still support the man Qian Weili’s approach. It’s not that he is unfeeling, but that his former wife Wang Shanshan was too unfeeling.
I would like to ask, a 13-year relationship between husband and wife is worse than an extramarital affair. Which man can bear it? You used to be indifferent to me, but now even if your relationship is bad, the other party is too high to reach you; indeed, if you betray your marriage, just admit your mistake and say a few words. Apologizing will put the past mistakes aside, and there is no cost for making mistakes. Then, everyone can make mistakes,
In fact, many people who have extramarital affairs thought that if they were discovered in the early days, the most painful thing would be divorce. However, as everyone knows, the most painful thing about extramarital affairs is divorce. The tragedy is not divorce, but that you will have nothing, and your family and loved ones will be resentful. This pain may stay with you for the rest of your life, making you regret it.
Therefore, do not cross the bottom line of morality and marriage for the sake of temporary passion.
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