We often say, "No review, no turnaround."
The ancients also said, "Reviewing the old and knowing the new can be a teacher."
Reviewing is actually reviewing, which is the wisdom passed down since ancient times.
However, it is also a review. Why are there no big difference between some people doing it and not doing it, and there is no big change in their lives, while some people use it to earth-shakingly, and even change the direction of their entire life?
In fact, it is very likely that it is the difference between concept and practice. In the book "The Master of Review", the author Zheng Qiang specially listed and emphasized the importance of concepts at the beginning.
Zheng Qiang, national second-level psychological counselor , proposer of review methodological model, famous corporate training leader, focused on review research and practice for more than 10 years. He summarized the following four review concepts based on his practical experience:
1. Don’t seek outside, search for inside
When a person is complaining and criticizing, he must be seeking outside. And asking for it will never get the good results you really want.
Inward searching is actually a good opportunity to connect with yourself. The more you explore inward, the more you can find your original intention and enhance your internal motivation.
Many people have no way to change even if they review it, because they lack the internal motivation to act. The very important point of reviewing
is actually to find your motivation to do this. The stronger the motivation, the more execution and concentration the person will have, and the result will be twice the result with half the effort.
2. The wall is the door. Be correct in attitude
. God closes a door for you, and may leave a window for you. What if God didn't even leave a window for you?
Do you choose to wait, complain, or pick up the axe and split a door yourself?
In fact, things themselves are objective, but our thoughts and actions cannot be separated from subjective influence. The perspective of looking at the world determines what kind of world we will be in.
is better to be a correct attitude, think about problems from your own perspective, and find solutions to problems.
3, 0.1>1, dare to take the first step
Sometimes we stop because we feel that we can't handle the things in front of us and think that the challenge is too great. But no matter how big the challenge is, if you really want to reach it, you will not be willing to give up.
At this time, it is better to break down this big challenge, compare your existing abilities and resources with the abilities and resources needed to complete the challenge, list your strengths and weaknesses, and then make a plan.
The most important thing is to take the first step bravely. This plan is the first step in action, and completing the first decomposed goal is the first step towards the big challenge.
does not underestimate every small opportunity, records every small goal completed, and constantly accumulates positive feedback.
4. Fish are not water, cherish the existence of
In fact, everyone has something unique to others, but it is easy to be ignored.
Maybe your appearance is not natural enough, and it is far from the goddess appearance. But you have a skillful hand that can put on makeup, and you are also very humorous and witty, which will attract others to get close to you.
Contact the previous search, looking around, observing the people around you, taking stock of the resources you already have, cherishing and making full use of them is also an important way to review.
Sometimes, you don’t need to rely on external forces and rely on your careful observation and full use of the surroundings, which will have amazing results.
Many people are emphasizing how to review and want to copy specific action templates directly from others, but ignore the internal skills and mental methods.
The most important thing in success now is often not ability, but energy.
Learn to search inward, find your own internal drive, and support your actions in order to maximize the power of review.
