Among the complex social relationships, the relationship between husband and wife is the most difficult to deal with. Once the relationship between husband and wife is not handled well, it will affect the entire family. After a long time of getting along, husband and wife will inevitably have some conflicts and misunderstandings. At this time, one party must Take the initiative to admit your mistakes. If both husband and wife are unwilling to compromise, the consequences can be imagined.
After four years of marriage, she discovered that her son was not her biological son. The husband wanted a divorce. The wife said: Give me another chance.
In married life, women often occupy a dominant position, and men are relatively weak groups.
Mr. Zhao and his wife Ms. Liu have been married for four years, but because of a paternity test, Mr. Zhao was extremely disappointed. The son he had worked so hard to raise for four years was not his biological son. This made Mr. Zhao difficult. Accept it, how should Mr. Zhao face his wife's cheating, why did Ms. Liu do this, and what unknown secrets are there?
According to Mr. Zhao, he and his wife met on a blind date. Because his wife was somewhat disabled, when they got married, his wife’s family gave him a gift of 80,000 yuan less. At that time, Mr. Zhao was not too young, so his parents urged him to marry him. When they got married, Mr. Zhao felt that his wife was in good condition in all aspects except for some inconveniences in her legs and feet. They got married three months after they met.
Once Mr. Zhao overheard some rumors about his wife, Mr. Zhao didn’t take it to heart at first. Until one day, a friend joked with Mr. Zhao and said, “Why does your son look nothing like you?” ", as the saying goes, "The speaker has no intention, the listener has intention." Coupled with the rumors he had heard before, Mr. Zhao became suspicious of his wife.
The only way to determine whether the child is his biological child is to do a paternity test. So Mr. Zhao secretly took the child and did a paternity test without telling his wife. The test results showed that the child was indeed not his biological child. Seeing such a result, Zhao The gentleman felt very sad.
The wife denied the results of the paternity test. After Mr. Zhao repeatedly questioned her, she admitted the fact that she had cheated on her. Ms. Liu said that not long after they got married, her husband went out to work. At this time, her ex-boyfriend sent her a message. He said that he wanted to ask her out for a meal and asked her if it was convenient. Ms. Liu felt that it would be useless to meet her for a meal, so she agreed to her ex-boyfriend's request.
Originally thought it was just a simple meal, but unexpectedly her ex-boyfriend actually called a group of friends. After the group finished eating, her ex-boyfriend proposed to sing at a KTV. Ms. Liu wanted to refuse, but she was forced to go by her ex-boyfriend. , later Ms. Liu had fun, drank a little more, and had sex with her ex-boyfriend.
Ms. Liu said that she herself did not expect to be pregnant with a child. She always thought that the child was her husband's at first. Mr. Zhao did not take it seriously when faced with his wife's remarks. He felt that his wife and her family were interested in his family's money, and his wife and her natal family collaborated. To deceive myself, the original request for a minimum of 80,000 yuan in betrothal gifts was also purposeful, just to make her have a good impression of his wife and family.
Although Mr. Zhao has two facades in his family, Ms. Liu said that she had never had such an idea and that she still had feelings for her husband. Mr. Zhao could not bear his wife's betrayal of the marriage and filed for divorce from her, but her wife was unwilling. , she hoped that her husband could forgive her once, and she would live a good life with her husband in the future, but Mr. Zhao had lost confidence in his wife and did not intend to forgive her. In the end, Mr. Zhao and his wife divorced, and the custody of the children belonged to his wife.
Author's point of view
In our lives, there are many examples like Mr. Zhao and Ms. Liu. Ms. Liu not only ruined a family, but also affected the children. It was not good for both husband and wife. Mr. Zhao also did not forgive his wife. Within reason, even if Mr. Zhao chooses to forgive his wife, there is no guarantee that Mr. Zhao will forget the incident. There is no guarantee that there will be no problems in the relationship between the couple in the future. The conflict between the two people is no longer a simple family dispute, but a shaky one. The foundation of marriage has been lost, and trust between each other has been lost.
Many netizens expressed their support for Mr. Zhao’s approach. If you have any different opinions, please leave a comment.
