Human nature is complicated, and you have to experience some betrayal and sadness before you can truly see the human heart!
In the face of the injury from the other half, as a victim, you still need to do yourself well.
Once you find that the other party has not changed after repeated teachings, don't just trust the other party with your sincerity. This is equivalent to being sentenced to life imprisonment!
Even if you are constrained by practical factors, you must understand one truth in time: from now on, the only person you can trust is yourself. This is the only correct way to avoid endless damage due to the opponent!
However, those who don’t take their partner’s sincerity seriously and can easily betray the promise of marriage, most of them end up unsatisfactorily, and they will pay the price due to their presumptuousness!
The following woman's own experience is quite representative. It should be said that she can clearly explain the importance of the above two points at the same time.
She said: "I had no choice but to acquiesce in my husband's derailment. He found ten lovers in three years. But in the end he was defeated in the pursuit of true love." Let's listen and see, everyone will be inspired by it. .
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My name is Si, and I am 43 years old this year. I think it's true that men can't have money, they will go bad when they have money.
Be like my husband, who used to go to work in peace and with a fixed salary. When I come back, I will probably be able to do my duty as a husband and a father.
People in middle age, although the relationship between husband and wife is relatively ordinary, and even estrangements and quarrels are inevitable, but the life can be considered to be passable, and it is more than enough.
But since he quit his job five years ago and went to the sea to do business, he made a lot of money after more than two years. After he became more economically rich, he gradually became more like two people.
At this time, his fox tail really appeared, and he began to deal with multiple women. In three years, I probably estimated that he found at least ten lovers.
The person next to his pillow does this kind of thing,As a wife, it is impossible to be undiscovered for a long time. But after I learned about it, I gave up the idea of trying to expose and divorce him because of specific factors in all aspects.
Why? First of all, I have been married to him for almost 20 years, and I still have a deep dependence and nostalgia for him and this marriage.
Furthermore, the child was only 15 years old at the time, and being away was not good for his growth. Also, to be honest, in such a long time, I didn't enjoy much blessing with him.
Finally, he has something to do, because I rushed to leave with him because of this kind of thing. Wouldn't it be a waste of money for others? Unwilling to think about it, so he endured it.
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For him, my silence is a kind of connivance in disguise.
In the past few years, his frequency of changing lovers is the same as switching channels with a remote control in his hand. He simply didn't put me in the eyes at all, and completely released himself.
At that time, he was quite confident and high-spirited, thinking that he was very attractive and those beautiful women who took the initiative to approach him were all impressed by his charm.
But I think he also has no brains. If they only approached because of love, why didn't he see a woman rushing forward when he had no money?
In fact, his identity and wealth have changed, which meets the needs of some women who are vain and reality. The lust of men and the greed of women create a wonderful resonance magnetic field.
That’s why it’s easy to hit it off! It was only because his mentality expanded after he succeeded that he had the illusion that he thought he was very good and could truly get the love and sincerity of every woman willing to be his lover.
In fact, not every woman approaches or accepts his pursuit for love. For them, interests are sometimes considered first, far greater than love.
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Although he is still in his prime of life, he has made some money by luck in the past few years, but he can’t stand such indulgence and spending time.The body and money will be emptied one day! After spending a long time and enjoying it, his body was weak, his money was exhausted, and he was finally lost in the pursuit of "true love"...
Yes, this is what he said from the bottom of his heart to his friends. He said that he had no relationship with me for a long time, and he didn't think I was the type he really liked from the beginning.
is just that the conditions of the two people were equal in all aspects at the time, and he could be regarded as the ideal wife who can live a life under his own circumstances.
Originally, this marriage was just improvised for him. In addition, the couple has lived together for more than ten or twenty years, the relationship is dull, and there are many small contradictions between each other, and he even more dislikes me as an old man. .
thinks I am no longer worthy of him now, he finally has the right and the ability to find true love. But what was the result? Hasn't it been beaten back by reality?
If he was just a little less money in the beginning, then now there is not much money left, the body is injured, the heart is hurt, and the love is gone. Everything is just nothing!
I think this is the punishment of fate for his unfaithfulness, right? I have tasted enough because of the damage he has suffered. This is called "the cycle of heaven, retribution is unhappy!" , To endure the betrayal of the other half.
What can be forgiven is the kind of man who makes mistakes occasionally under impulse, and is really willing to regret it. You give him a chance to look back, and you are also saving yourself a marriage that has devoted your sincerity, love, time, energy, and huge investment in material and labor.
But in the face of this kind of man who has no loyalty at all and treats him as a pursuit of freedom and happiness, this kind of patience will be regarded by the other party as a reason for cowardice and incompetence and you cannot leave him.
A man who is habitually cheating and becoming sexual, he has never put his partner in his eyes for a long time, and there is no way to talk about any love and respect for her.
Even if he has a little sense of responsibility, he can't treat derailment as a journey to find true love.
Therefore,In this situation, the most correct way for a woman is probably to collect evidence, strive for the greatest benefit and protection, and then leave the other party.
Because even if you have unlimited tolerance, the other's heart, money and energy have all been spent on other women.
All that is left to you is pain, patience and suffering. Life is hard, there is really no need to punish yourself for others' mistakes!
If you know that there is no need for a person to stay, it is more wise and pragmatic to let go in time and stop the loss!
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