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As parents, in the process of raising children, the most hope is that the baby can grow up smoothly and healthily, and develop according to the correct time and law. But parents should also know that children are unique, and each child has its own growth time and pattern, so each child learns a certain skill at a different time.
On the way of growth, children must learn to crawl, stand, and walk. This is a process that any healthy child must go through. However, some parents find that their baby is not progressing the same way as someone else's baby. Especially when they find that their baby is behind others, parents will be even more worried. In fact, this kind of worry is unnecessary.
Li Li just became a mother for more than a year. During this period of time, she watched the baby grow up day by day, and she was very emotional. When Li Li was in the hospital, she met many mothers, and everyone started a chat group together, and they kept in touch after she was discharged from the hospital. Because everyone's babies are born before and after, and are about the same age, mothers often communicate with each other about their children's growth.
When the babies are about ten months old, some mothers start to post videos of their children walking in the group, and they can see that the children walk very steadily and have a good sense of balance. Li Li was a little worried when she saw it, because her baby had difficulty even standing when she was ten months old. At that time, other mothers comforted Li Li, saying that the children's growth speed was different, so don't worry.
A few months later, the baby has grown to thirteen months, but still can only stand up and can't move at all, and most of the children in the group have walked very well.Seeing the gap between the baby and others, Li Li worried whether there was something wrong with the child's body, and took the child to the hospital to check the development, but the results showed that everything was normal. The doctor also told Li Li not to worry too much, every child is different.
Some children walk early, and some children walk late. The time difference is mainly due to the following points:
1, related to the way of care.
Some families do not have enough members, and most of them rely on their mother to take care of the children. But my mother still has a lot of housework to do at home. She can't hold her baby 24 hours a day. She spends a lot of time leaving her baby alone in a safe place. At this time, the child's curiosity will make the child eager to stand up, will continue to try to stand, and will naturally learn to stand and walk faster than other children.
In some families, there are more people taking care of children. Especially in families with elderly people, they often hold their children in their hands and stare at them, so they are willing to let their children sit firmly, and they will stop them when they stand up a little.
2, related to genes
Learning to walk also depends on exercise genes, which have a certain relationship with parents' genes. According to research, about 40% of children learn to walk at the same time as their parents.
All in all, every child is unique. One and a half years is the time for an average child to learn to walk. As long as the child is about the same time as this time, parents do not need to worry too much. As long as they actively guide their children to practice standing and give them time and opportunities to exercise their leg muscles, their lower limbs will gradually become stronger. , you will naturally be able to master the skills of walking.
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