On October 27, Lee Seung-hyun revealed in the latest variety show that Qi Wei has a second child.
38-year-old Qi Wei gave birth to her second child at an advanced age, making their marriage more successful and happier. Many fans sent their blessings.
Speaking of Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun, the couple in the entertainment industry, is a typical combination of strong women and weak men, but this does not affect the stability and sweetness of their marriage.
After learning about this couple, many people also envied Qi Wei for having such a considerate husband.
But Qi Wei said: "True love is never encountered, it is cultivated."
Yes, There has never been a perfect marriage in this world, only people who manage their marriage with care.
sorted out the secrets of their marriage happiness, and three points are inseparable from:
01. It is not natural to see the other party’s efforts
In 2014, Qi Wei married the unknown former member of the Korean group Lee Seung-hyun.
But in this marriage, they can see each other's efforts and support and recognize each other's efforts for the family.
In Lee Seung-hyun's eyes, in order to have a daughter Lucky, Qi Wei has consumed the most golden period of actresses. Women's career lifeline is much shorter than men, so she can wait.
In order to make his wife pursuing her dreams in the entertainment industry with peace of mind, Lee Seung-hyun took on the responsibility of taking care of her children at home.
Qi Wei also highly recognizes Lee Seung-hyun's efforts to take care of his children full-time.
Qi Wei once said on the show:
"If you are the pillar, you can't stand it."
Qi Wei understands that the reason why she can focus on her career outside is because her husband takes care of everything at home.
The couple did not regard children and career as opposition, but regarded the family as a whole. Children and career are part of the family and need to coordinate together between the couple.
Qi Wei understands the hardships of her husband to take care of her children and family. She recognizes his efforts to the family, which makes Lee Seung-hyun’s efforts at home more valuable;
This recognition also makes Lee Seung-hyun more willing to support his wife.
And Lee Seung-hyun can also understand the difficulty of Qi Wei as a woman, wife, and mother in marriage, and is willing to do his best to fulfill his wife's dream.
In fact, in the family, whether it is the male lead or the female lead, can only make the family relationship more harmonious and the marriage life happier only when each other can see each other's efforts and recognize each other's value.
02. Do not accumulate emotions, can maintain timely communication
In the program " My Young Kid ", Qi Wei personally cooked a pot of soup for Li Chengxuan, fed him to taste it, and asked him how it tasted.
Lee Seung-hyun said the truth: "It tastes good, but it tastes a little lighter than what you used to be."
Qi Wei glanced at the corner of her mouth and was a little angry. After adjusting her emotions, she took the initiative to communicate with Lee Seung-hyun and expressed her feelings:
"I'm very happy that you can tell the truth, but your truth will hurt me, I'll make soup for you. The focus is on your mind, but you only value the taste. Your thinking is too straightforward. "
Then she patiently taught Lee Seung-hyun:
"I think the taste is 70, but because of the degree of touching you doing this, I can say 100 points."
After listening to Qi Wei's words, Lee Seung-hyun also said seriously:
"As long as you come up with it, I can pay more attention next time."
In " Happiness Class " by Harvard University , Professor Tal of positive psychology once talked about the research result:
The most harmonious and harmonious relationship between husband and wife is not that they never quarrel, but that they can also try to communicate actively while quarreling.
In fact, people have a rich imagination. When you encounter a problem, if you don’t say it, and if you keep it in your heart, it will easily be imagined as countless possibilities.
When bad emotions accumulate to a certain level, misunderstandings will also arise from this.
In marriage, being able to communicate in a timely manner, eliminating misunderstandings in a timely manner, being able to speak well, and express love is also the key to harmonious relationship between husband and wife.
03. Not overly dependent, can go hand in hand
Having a daughter, Lee Seung-hyun doesn't want to restrain Qi Wei because of trivial matters, but takes the initiative to take the responsibility of taking care of the children and the family, which also makes Qi Wei have no worries, shines in her own field, and has always occupied a front-line position.
The child is grown up and has the opportunity. Qi Wei encourages and supports her husband to leave the family, while she returns to the family and serves as his backing.
Lee Seung-hyun participated in the second season of "Breaking the Thorns" and faced a dilemma: should he leave the game or go home to accompany Qi Wei to have a second child?
When Lee Seung-hyun expressed her concerns on the phone, although Qi Wei needed Lee Seung-hyun very much, she understood his embarrassment and did not want her husband to leave any regrets. So she enlightened him:
"Since you choose to participate in the program, you must be worthy of the audience and complete the stage performance well..."
These words were like a shot of a calming agent, alleviating Lee Seung-hyun's doubts and self-blame.
EconomistEconomistXue ZhaofengProfessor once used a very vivid metaphor to describe marriage. He said: "Marriage is like running a partnership."
In marriage, a marriage company requires both husband and wife to advance and retreat together, discuss together, enjoy honor and disgrace, and rely on one party to work hard to manage it. Sooner or later, they will break up, go bankrupt, and go bankrupt.
John Gotman In the book "Happy Marriage":
"The most difficult company in the world is the family; the most difficult relationship is the husband and wife."
Two people go hand in hand and make progress together is far better than one person's single fight.
does not rely too much on each other, and can give each other a sense of security. "If you divide it, you will be kings, and if you combine it, you will be unparalleled in the world." This is also the secret for them to remain in love as before after 7 years of marriage.
04.Written at the end
German There is a proverb:
Marriage, if it is not heaven, it is hell
In real life, many women dare not have a second child, not only for economic reasons, but also because of fear of childbirth, because when they are born, they have already experienced the failure of the men around them as husbands and fathers.
As a female star, Qi Wei’s ability to give birth to a second child at the age of 38 is not simply due to her personal ability and financial strength. Her husband’s long-standing respect, responsibility and protection also makes Qi Wei truly feel the happiness from her family.
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has a second child, which can make life happier, why not give birth?
In fact, marriage has never been a matter of one person. Those good marriages are the result of both parties' careful management. No one must sacrifice , but only by constantly learning, growing together, and achieving each other can we keep each other's favorites and work together until we are old.
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