To be honest, who doesn’t want their children to make a name for themselves when they grow up? Even if they can’t do something by themselves, it’s great to be a “little leader” in a unit~~
Can children have a promising future? In addition to cultivating their children’s learning ability and optimizing themselves with knowledge, it is more important to have “leadership” .
Can a child have "leadership potential" in the future? You can see clues from childhood. Isn't it amazing? Let’s explore the secret together.
What is the "force" of leadership?
In recent years, the concept of "leadership" has gradually been advocated by everyone. It is an indispensable ability education in Quality Education .
Don’t get me wrong, Leadership is not the same as a child who will definitely be a leader in the future!
Instead, when a child has a certain degree of leadership, it will penetrate into every detail of the child's life and learning bit by bit, secretly affecting the child's words and deeds, thoughts and thoughts.
Harold Koontz once mentioned:
Leadership is an influence, leadership is an influence process, an art or process that influences people's willingness and enthusiasm to achieve organizational goals.
Children without leadership will find it difficult to express their ideas, they are prone to losing their backbone when encountering problems, lack self-control and global awareness. On the contrary, these elements are necessary for being a good leader in the future.
To be more important, children with leadership will likely have a good position and life when they grow up, and can be more "easy" in society and have the ability to control their own lives.
To be smaller, leadership can also enable children to gain confidence through influence, teamwork, etc. and exercise a sense of responsibility.
Leadership is an internalized to externalized influence. Children can first become their own leader through leadership, so that they can influence others through their words and deeds and become the leader of others.
Before the age of 6, I discovered the leadership of my child
How could a child have any leadership? Is this too exaggerated?
Maybe everyone will have questions of this kind. After all, this ability doesn’t look like it can be possessed by human cubs without any effort~
Developmental psychologist Ericson proposed a Life development stage theory . From his research, individual leadership development of people is divided into pre-school, childhood, adolescence, early adulthood, middle adulthood and late adulthood.
From this we can see that our leadership development began before the age of 6. The
-6 years old is the initial budding period of children's leadership development and an important stage for laying the later foundation.
5 signals of leadership
Many times, children's behavior when they are young is actually TA The signal of leadership that is born with . As long as we parents guide us, we can help twice the result with half the effort.
The following three small signals. As long as the child can have one, it means that he has leadership potential~ If all 5 are hit, congratulations, your child has a promising future!
has perception ability
Perceptual ability is a kind of keen observation and cognition of changes in the surrounding environment, people and things. Children with this ability usually have a big picture thinking and foresight.
Let’s give an example to facilitate everyone’s understanding.
❶ When you come home hungry, your child is eating and realizes that your mother may not have eaten either, so you take the initiative to help you get the dishes and chopsticks.
❷ At a family gathering, the children of relatives play together, and one of them is the kind of introverted and silent. So when your child sees this, he takes the initiative to invite the introverted child to join the game and does not allow any child to be alone.
and so on. You can recall whether your child has had similar experiences.
htmlChildren before the age of 16 usually focus all their attention on things they are interested in. can pay attention to things other than their own needs and take the initiative to solve them, which means that the child is really excellent.
How can parents help?
We can give children more opportunities to let their children do their own family activities or activities between friends.
exercises a child's overall perspective, understands the needs and interactions between people under the activities, and gives children room to solve problems by themselves.
As long as parents are around, they can guide and help appropriately when their children seek help, it is more conducive to children's ability to think from a larger perspective to solve predictable problems and decision-making.
Be motivated to do things
Once you want to do something, you have to do it immediately. Sometimes you may be eager to try it out if you can't wait for the adults to agree, and usually you are treated as disobedient by parents.
If your child is a fairy baby with advanced action, Just have a secret fun. How many parents can’t even ask for lanterns~
shows that the child is very has the inner driving force , dare to think and do, sometimes when you don’t know how to proceed, there will be a momentum pushing yourself to act first, even if it’s something that parents don’t allow, even if they are told that it’s the wrong direction, they still want to give it a try.
Let’s think about the “big guys” that often appear on the wealth list. It seems that each person has the characteristics of “dare to think and fight”. This is an early signal that children have one of the leadership skills. Don’t bury them.
There is such a child in the family. To be honest, when parents are happy, they really need to have more snacks, because maybe one is not careful and the child will go to a big career (came trouble).
How can parents help?
First of all, we cannot suppress children's nature and refuse less and encourage more. Since we cannot prevent children from doing things that know they are failures, then join the children and accompany them to discuss the action plan, and encourage them to try what the result will be.
If it touches the bottom line of safety, parents need to provide more safety education and guidance for their children, and let their children try to experience dangerous things within a controllable range, so that their children can understand that they should develop their actions under boundaries.
Energetic
There is a "skin monkey" in the family who is not idle for a moment. That must be a headache for parents. From the perspective of leadership, To see energetic children, it is like a treasure~
Because you will find that energetic children have one thing in common. They cannot be idle, they are very good at "playing" and have sufficient energy.
They can often create or organize a game or entertainment method themselves, and when they have companions, they can better exert this feature. These energetic, full of energy, energy and playful ideas are likely to infect other children to join together.
Research has found that - Children with strong energy have more responsiveness, better physical strength, stronger thinking ability and decision-making ability . At the same time, they can better devote themselves to the team work and make things easier to succeed.
How can parents help?
The only thing that can defeat the "super standby ability" is cooperation~ Mom and Dad, don't bother with energetic children~
can make children convert their energy into motivation to focus on a certain interest from the perspective of exploring their children's interests.
Secondly, if the child has endless energy, take the child out of the house more, go outdoors to play, and have more contact with the children. After all, children can have their own energy-consuming gameplay, and the children's social circle can actually exercise the children's abilities in all aspects.
My parents, come and take a look at whether your child has the potential for "leadership" ~~
