I wonder if you have noticed that some people around you have special names. When we first hear their names, we can feel the meaning and expectations behind this name.
is a person's code name, but it is also a tag that accompanies a person's life, so parents usually think carefully when naming their children.
But some parents place some expectations on their children when naming their children. For example, "rich and strong", "making wealth", "top scholar", etc. Among these names, there is a type of name that is more special, especially among girls' names, that is "Zhaodi", "Zhaodi", "Yingdi" or "Yingdi".
These names have one common feature, that is, they are all homophones with "Brother". I believe that when you see or hear such a name, you will know why parents name it like this. But for girls, is this name really what they like? Is it really fair for girls to name this way?
In recent years, with the changes in everyone's concepts, the idea of favoring boys over girls has gradually weakened, and equality between men and women has become an irreversible general trend.
However, in the early years, there was indeed a serious phenomenon of favoring boys over girls in some areas, especially in backward rural areas, where the local desire for boys exceeded the general perception.
So, in order to have a boy, some parents will name their daughters such as Zhaodi and "Zhaodi".
20-year-old Henan woman changed her name, and felt relieved.
20-year-old Henan woman is one of them. In addition to her surname, her name is "Zhaodi". This name has accompanied her for 20 years, but thankfully, it has only been with her for 20 years. Because now she finally mustered up the courage to change a name, and now her name is Pengpeng.
" life has been full of troubles.
When she was in school, she could not remember how many people asked whether there was a younger brother at home or whether her parents wanted a son. Every time she was asked, "Zhao Di" would feel particularly inferior because she knew that her parents gave herself such a name to give birth to another younger brother. She did not receive the attention of her parents, and she even thought she was a little redundant.
So "Zhao Di" did not dare to introduce herself in front of others, and she didn't even want to be publicly commended by the school, because as soon as the school commended, it would be broadcasted through the radio. By then, everyone knew that her name was very special, which would attract more sarcasm.
Now, "Zhao Di" finally mustered up the courage to change his name to Pengpeng. This is the beginning of a new life for her and her farewell to the past. Pengpeng was relieved after changing his name. Now she no longer has to worry about the strange looks of others, nor does she worry that her name will become the object of ridicule of others.
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These names such as "Zhao Di" and "Ying Di" exposed are that some families still have the idea of favoring boys over girls. Although this phenomenon is not as common as before, it still exists. The reason why
has such a phenomenon is that some people still believe in "raising children to protect themselves and protecting their old age" Say. But the key factor in deciding whether to prevent old age is not the gender of the children, but the education of the children.
If you give your children enough care and companionship when you were young, then the children will naturally become a kind, optimistic and grateful person, and the relationship with their parents will be deeper. Children who grow up in this environment, even if you don’t need to deliberately emphasize it, they will know how to support their parents’ old age and send their children to their death.
However, if you have not been with your children since childhood, or lack education and guidance for your children, making them addicted to mobile games and have an impatient and violent personality, then it would be good if these children do not rely on their parents in the future. Don’t expect too much to do something for the older generation.
So, instead of focusing on the gender of the child, it is better to focus on the education and cultivation of the child. As long as parents can educate and guide their children with their heart and emotions, and teach by words, there is no need to worry about the issue of elderly care in the future.
I hope that in the future, the phenomenon of favoring boys over girls will become less and less. Both boys and girls can receive the same treatment and become the "baby" in the hearts of parents.
