is here today to talk to you about the second child.
I am also born in the 1990s and am now the father of two children. Many of the topics that friends usually discuss together are around the second child. Nowadays, most people have more open ideas. Most people do not have the idea of preferring boys over girls. This does not exclude some individuals. So everyone is more afraid of having a second child, and as a father with a second child, I have summarized the pros, cons and thoughts!
A family with only one child :
A family with only one child The advantage of is that the financial pressure will be much less and there will be more personal time. In addition, most of today's young people, whether in rural or urban areas, are helped by their parents. Some are more independent, and some have their parents give up their own lives to focus on taking care of their children. I believe everyone knows this, and both the economy and life are relatively easy. Furthermore, you can invest more time and effort into a child.
Disadvantages : Our country has implemented the family planning for 33 years. Today's families are basically under the 421 system, and many of our generation are only children. We face four elderly people and one child. Our parents may have provided us with good material help in the early stage, but at the same time we have to face the frailty and illness of our parents as they age. In addition, we live in a fast-paced society, and it will be more difficult to take good care of the elderly. We have more than enough energy but not enough energy, whether it is energy or finances. When we are old, our children will be in trouble. Therefore, in light of my country's aging problem, the country has launched a two-child policy, which is nothing more than to enhance the family's elderly care function, alleviate the aging problem, and increase the labor force..
Advantages of having a second child :
In fact, having one more child means that the child can now have a good partner. In today's fast-paced high-rise building life, children are actually relatively lonely. Think about how happy we were when we were young. We had many friends, lived close by, and could play together every day. When we grow old, we can also leave a relative for our children. The blood connection has been inseparable since ancient times. When encountering problems in the future, we can have someone with whom we can face problems together.
Disadvantages: In fact, the disadvantages are relatively many for us personally. First, the cost of training and educating a child is really too high now. We all want our children to win at the starting line, and both energy and finances are prohibitive. Everyday busyness revolves around children. There is not much personal time at all. To put it bluntly, wanting to live a married life is like "stealing someone".
Final summary:
From my personal point of view, before having a second child, we should consider our own circumstances: including age, financial strength, family and other factors, but we should not consider it too complicated. If we think too much, there will be no results. If we want to have a second child, we must also be mentally prepared in advance. There is not much pressure. It is nothing more than making good money and cultivating a sound personality in the child. Take good care of our family and spend more of our free time with our children. At the same time, children can actually bring us many wonderful things.
is a good choice if you don’t want it, so that the couple can have more time and energy to live their own three-person life. In my current life, in addition to working every day, I go home to take care of my children and accompany them. In fact, I am not that tired. I just spend my spare time at home drinking and playing games. However, I personally feel that I am still tired and happy! Whether to give birth or not still depends on the direction you consider. Whether other factors are dispensable depends on you.
