Children’s self-discipline is not forced by parents, but depends on the child’s self-esteem level.
agrees very much with a passage on the Internet:
"Where does a child's self-discipline come from? From the time he starts to love the world, from the time he starts to like himself, from the time he starts to recognize the correct way to open something. His self-discipline rises spontaneously from the bottom of his heart." It hits the spot.
Scott Pike wrote in " The Road Less Traveled ":
"The driving force of self-discipline comes from love. The basis of self-discipline is the recognition of self-worth. When a person feels that he is valuable, he will take all necessary measures to take care of himself and cherish himself."
In the final analysis, if you want your children to get better, you must make your children feel good.
We can never teach children self-discipline when they feel bad.
Educating children is a complex system, not a simple system composed of grade after grade and subject after subject. If you want to get into the heart of your child and exert your parents' influence, the best and only way is to give your child the recognition and respect he wants, and give him trust and time to grow.
The education method is not a one-time solution. Parents need to continue to learn and make progress. In this process, parents continue to show their children their determination and joy of learning. When a parent's self-esteem level increases, it will be less likely to take it out on the child, and as the child's self-esteem level increases, the child will have a better level of self-discipline. This is how a home moves from a vicious cycle to a virtuous cycle.
In order to raise a highly self-disciplined child, parents must give their children more respect, trust, love and sense of value. Only by letting children believe that they can do well can they grow into self-disciplined and conscious people.
