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Two days ago, a friend in the mother's group complained: When I visited a certain mother and baby website, I was almost pissed off by some of the people there.
I actually saw a post from a mother asking, is it harmful to have sex during confinement? At that time, I clicked on it and took a look. This mother said that on the 26th day of her confinement, her lochia was cleared and her side incisions no longer hurt.
Because my husband had sex after drinking, he insisted on it. She couldn't hold it back and gave in. After having sex, she didn't feel any discomfort, except that she felt a little burning pain when urinating.
Results When I went to the hospital for a checkup on the 42nd day, the doctor said that I had a gynecological disease. Since I am breastfeeding, I am afraid that taking medicine will affect the baby. So she could only carry it.
Tsk, isn’t this just looking for trouble? As for being in such a hurry? Why don’t you know how to cherish your body and be more resolute?
His husband is too selfish. He only wants to enjoy himself and doesn't care about his wife's health. If he really respects and loves his wife, he will definitely not do such a thing
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Okay, I can probably understand the powerlessness in this little friend's heart. After all, we all understand the truth, but you can never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep.
But even so, I still want to talk about it briefly today.
html What are the dangers of having sex during confinement?
During postpartum and confinement period, women's resistance is poor. Moreover, the endometrium has not been completely repaired, and the vaginal and cervical tissues are very fragile.
If you have sexual intercourse too early, it is very detrimental to the recovery of the uterus. Moreover, the pathogen can easily enter the reproductive system. This in turn leads to the occurrence of gynecological diseases such as vaginitis , cervicitis , endometritis , pelvic inflammatory disease .
The more common symptoms are severe abdominal pain in women, increased amount of lochia with a peculiar smell, prolonged lochia duration, and itching of the private parts.
So, when can we have sex after giving birth?
If the confinement period is less than 42 days, be sure not to have sex too early. Even if the lochia has been drained, the side incision does not hurt, and the caesarean section wound is recovering well. For the sake of your mother's health, don't rush to applaud love.
This is because after giving birth, the mother's body is still relatively weak, and it often takes a certain amount of time for various organ systems in the body to return to their pre-pregnancy state.
Generally speaking, this period is 42 days. In other words, if you want to have sex after giving birth, you must survive the 42 days of the puerperium.
Women who have had a caesarean section need longer to recuperate. It is best to wait two months before having sex for the first time. Of course, if there is no recovery, the time will still have to be postponed.
Pay attention to these when you have sex for the first time after giving birth:
1. You must use contraception.
Don’t think that your ovaries will not ovulate if your period has not come after delivery. At this time, if you go into battle without a condom, you will not get pregnant.
should know that this idea is wrong. If you don't pay attention to contraception, you may get pregnant again just after the period.
When the time comes, it will definitely cause great harm to women’s bodies. Especially women who have had a caesarean section are at higher risk whether they keep the baby or choose to have an abortion.
2. Move gently
When you have sex for the first time after giving birth, you must not pursue excitement. The time should not be too long, and the movements should be gentle and not too violent. Think more about the mother’s body and feelings. It's best to make adequate preparations before having sex, and don't force your way through.
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