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Women have uteruses and breasts, so they have to bear the heavy responsibility of giving birth and breastfeeding!
When I was a child in the countryside, I often saw women feeding their children in the fields or under the eaves of their homes, just lifting up their clothes and feeding them.
However, with the development of society, this phenomenon has gradually become rare. There are even mother and baby rooms in many subway stations, shopping malls, hospitals and even squares in the city. The main purpose of mother and baby rooms is to feed mothers.
Because mothers need to be naked when breastfeeding, it would be unsightly to do so in public. After all, it is a great thing for mothers to feed their children, and we must also take into account the dignity of mothers!
Society is progressing, but many elderly people still have old ideas!
feels that breastfeeding is something that is very common with .
Some time ago, a netizen said that she had seen a video forwarded by others in the group. The daughter-in-law was naked and breastfeeding her child, while the parents-in-law were watching!
There are comments from netizens. This situation is really weird!
It is true that many old people’s ideas are actually outdated, but they have not corrected them in time, which can easily lead to conflicts with young people!
Elderly people tend to have several wrong ideas. Young people should not let them go
Type 1: Have a baby immediately after getting married without preparing for pregnancy
People in the past did get pregnant and have children in the second month of marriage. is everywhere , but now we recommend eugenics and nurturing .
Before getting married, we recommend that you do a premarital checkup to find out whether the two people have any genetic problems, so as to prevent them from easily giving birth to children with genetic problems, such as thalassemia and so on.
And there is no problem with prenatal checkup . We also need to take folic acid three months in advance, so that it will be easier to give birth to a healthy child.
So the idea that old people say that you don’t need to prepare for pregnancy when you get married is wrong.
Type 2: Pregnancy without prenatal check-up is a waste of money
Many elderly people feel that they have never had prenatal check-ups before giving birth to several children, so going to pre-natal check-ups is a waste of money. If you go to pre-natal check-ups frequently, there will be no problems, so isn’t that money in vain?
In fact, if there are no problems when we go for a prenatal check-up, it means that the child is normal and good. This is a good thing. The main reason why we go for a prenatal check-up is to prevent the child from having problems that are not discovered in time, which will be irreparable when the child is born.
and prenatal check-ups can also tell whether the mother's nutritional status is normal, whether it is necessary to increase or reduce the amount of food, to avoid excessive fetal size, etc. Therefore, prenatal check-ups are necessary, so don't save money.
Type 3: Pregnancy is not about eating for two people. During pregnancy, we don’t need to consume too much food in the first trimester. In the second and third trimesters, we can slightly increase the intake of high-quality protein, but don’t eat too many high-calorie foods.
For example, snacks, such as fine rice noodles, such as fatty meat or foods with high fat content, will cause our weight to increase too much, increase the burden during pregnancy, and will also cause the fetus to be too large, which is not conducive to the mother's delivery.
When you are pregnant, you need to control your diet a little and don't eat too much.
Type 4: Painless delivery Will affect the IQ of the fetus
A netizen said angrily on the Internet that she wanted to have a painless delivery, but her mother-in-law said it was not possible. The anesthesia used for painless delivery will affect the child's brain and must not be used.
In fact, the mother-in-law's statement is also wrong. The anesthetic used for painless delivery is a very small dose and will not cause any damage to the fetal brain..
Painless delivery also allows the mother to conserve her physical strength when the cervix is dilated, allowing the mother to give birth to the child faster later, and to prevent the child from being delayed for too long during delivery and affecting the child's brain!
Type 5: Newborns always cry because they are not full.
Newborns cry not only because they are not full, but also because they feel insecure, or because they want their mother to hold them.
When the mother-in-law is taking care of the mother, when she sees the child crying, she will say that it must be because she has not eaten enough, and she should breastfeed the child quickly. Frequent feeding of the child in this way will easily cause the child to become bloated and cry more violently, so this view of the elderly is also wrong!
As a mother, you need to learn some advanced parenting knowledge to avoid being guided by your mother-in-law’s old and wrong ideas, which may harm your children.
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