Why are women born to be mothers?
Since the birth of a baby, I have been a mother for 46 days.
Starting from the first night, I sleep with my worries every night, and I never sleep until dawn. If I am lucky, I will take a little sleep to replenish my energy by relying on you to sleep during the day. Otherwise, relying solely on a few scattered sleeps at night, it would be really tiring to persist for 24 hours, which is even more tiring than going to work.
Because of your appearance, it was about 2-3 times all night. It was woken up by your humming sound. If you sleepy, it would take 10 seconds to relax. Suddenly, it would be full of chicken blood, full of energy, and look at the baby with pampering eyes, rubbing against your furry -fetal , embracing you in your arms, then changing to diapers ➕ feeding
I think this is probably the most real instinct reaction of maternal love. No one taught me how to be a mother, and I seem to be born to be a mother, and even the tone of talking to you suddenly becomes unimaginable. In the past, I would have thought that I was so pretentious and very pretentious. Now I realize that it is the instinctive reaction of pampering you.
1111000 pregnant for ten months, once the childbirth, the bones open ten fingers, they become "father, grandparents" in an instant, they welcome your birth with laughter, and mother exchanged for your crying for a lifetime.
In the days that followed, everyone praised you for being well-behaved and smart when they saw you, and praised you to the sky, but they couldn't feel how my mother spent every night: she had seen her mobile phone every hour in the early morning and she cried alone in the middle of the night, collapsed and healed herself, dragging her tired body to accompany you through one night after another sleeping night after another.
But there is someone who may be able to better understand your feelings, that is my mother, your grandma.
is here, thank my mother, every night she coaxes you to sleep, holds you, your little body pierces into grandma's arms, and sleeps soundly. In order to make you sleep soundly, my grandma couldn't move in one position for several hours, for fear of pressing you. When you wake up again and again and I feed you, grandma can sleep for a few minutes and rest assuredly, then she hugged you and slept until six in the morning when she got up to cook.
is tired? tired. Mom is not afraid of being tired, even if others say I am pretentious. It seems that taking care of a baby is destined to be what the mother should do alone. Everyone's life has not changed, only mother has changed. I don’t have the heart to work now, and I’m full of you in my mind. I have breastfeeded for 24 hours and I have a lot of milk in two hours, so I can’t work. It doesn’t matter if life is hard now. Who made me a mother?
There is no perfect mother in the world, but no one in this world has to love you more unconditionally than mothers, even if I use my life to protect you.
If you ask me if I regret being a mother, it is fake to say that I don’t regret it. Who doesn’t miss the freedom to be single? But being a mother is the only way to go in life. I just hope you grow up healthy and safely.
I also missed my past and was free and careless, but I cherish the present with you even more. Baby, I love you
