. Can parents do worry when facing campus bullying? We admit that mothers who are worried about their children, especially some weak and introverted children, are more likely to make their parents anxious. Can they face the difficulties of life outside and handle their relationship with the people around them? Will children who seem to be difficult to mess with bully their children, etc.
instead of worrying about whether the child will be bullied, it cannot develop a physical condition that the child looks difficult to mess with. This is something that starts from the time children are very young.
1. Don’t be timid when encountering problems, know how to fight back after being bullied
Not to mention children, even the adult world is the same. People like to pick "soft persimmons". Therefore, those who are habitually bullied by others should cheer up, don’t swallow your anger at any time, and be brave. If you are cruel, I will be even crueler than you.
2. Know how to seek "helpers"
If the child's body shape or personality really cannot protect himself, you can also find a helper to solve the bullying problem you may face. For example, a boy was originally very good at studying after entering school, but he was mixed with several kids who were fighting. The teachers and parents were confused. Later, the parents learned through in-depth communication with the children that although the children were good at studying, they were short and always bullied by their classmates. So he can at least gain their protection from himself by being with children who love to fight.
3. Improve your hard strength
When children are young, they can take their children to participate in some sports to increase their physical fitness. You can even learn some self-defense techniques , such as Sanda , fighting, etc. These can increase children's inner self-confidence, and may also help children improve their inferiority complex and emotions, help them rebuild their beliefs, and lay a good foundation for children to no longer tolerate bullying from others.
4. Educate children what bullying is
Usually tell children what bullying is, but it is not just about being beaten by someone or kicking it, including verbal attacks, nicknames for him, cold violence, being cursed, etc.
5. Don’t always educate your children to “be harmonious is the most important”
Chinese parents always pay attention to traditional culture, what is harmony is the most important, suffering losses are the most important, etc. These are all telling children to be tolerant and tolerant. But the child is bullied. Can you be bullied and you can’t fight back? If you bear it, you will only make others bully you even more. So, don’t be more careful than having more things. We usually tell our children not to cause trouble, but we are not afraid of people coming to provoke us.
Ignore me, I will ignore myself, but if you bully others, I will definitely let you see how powerful I am. Only long-term education can make children no longer bear it.
Finally, it is recommended that parents can become friends of their children. When children encounter problems, parents can learn about it in time and become the support of their children's soul and the most powerful protection and strength.
or above is for reference and learning only. Please do it under the guidance of professionals. On the road of parenting, we are all novices. How to better take care of children? You can follow me and discuss with me what happens on the road of parenting.
