Dear parents who love to study, Hello everyone, today we will discuss why children live one day, and many children live their lives in a daze. The phenomenon of
is becoming more and more common. Why do children in many families lose their goals and everything becomes indifferent, and devote all their time to games and enjoying life.
Our children are like a luxury Mercedes-Benz car, with good performance and can run at a speed of 2,000 meters per hour. However, if a thick layer of black paper is pasted on the windshield of the Mercedes-Benz car, when the driver cannot see the direction, the car can only be idle there.
If a child loses his direction in life, he can only live a day of life.
There are three groups of people who are going to the same destination. The first group of people is told that you are going to a certain place, but there is no other relevant information.
The second group of people was told to go to a certain place, and also told the approximate itinerary and how long it would take,
The third group of people was told to go to a certain place, and told the clear distance and each distance, what the goal is in the distance.
Then the performance of these three groups of people is completely different in the process. I just knew that I wanted to go to a certain place, and after a while, I started to complain that the road was too long and that the road was too difficult to walk. As I walked, everyone had no motivation and then gave up.
The second group of people knows to go somewhere and tell them about their approximate itinerary and time. They are willing to go and go, but after halfway through, they will also have a lot of negative negative emotions.
The third group of people were told to go to a certain place and knew the clear distance and goal. These people walked happily, chatting and finally arrived at their destination smoothly.
These three groups of people’s different situations also give us inspiration in education.
Parents hope that their children have goals, but not every parent knows how to decompose the goals, let their children know how to achieve the goals, and at the same time let the children see the distance between them and the goals at different nodes. This is different for the children's learning status.
Some children give up halfway while learning, while some children can persevere to the end.
Many parents complain that my child said it very well, but he just couldn't do it. When our parents complain like this, we reflect on it. We also have a lot of dreams and have said a lot of things to do, but have we done it?
We may enter into reflection and admit that we have indeed said a lot and set a lot of dreams, but we have not achieved them. But if every goal we set has been achieved, I don’t think we are who we are today.
The most difficult thing for humans is to do everything they have said, and the wisdom of parents lies in helping their children turn what they have said into what they have said in the end. Instead of constantly complaining to the child behind his back and saying that the child cannot do what he says. This injects a negative belief in the child: I am a person who cannot do what he says, and from then on, he will be the loser in everything he does in his life.
When our children keep turning what they say and do into reality, they will have faith in their hearts that everything I say can be realized, and such children can climb, overcome one difficulty after another, and reach the peak of life. Such a life is completely different.
The most important role and mission of parents is to help their children build their dreams and let their children see ways to realize their dreams. At the same time, they can also realize their dreams for their children. Parents are good helpers for their children, so that their children have confidence and motivation to realize their dreams.
Some parents will also ask, how can they help their children set goals and at the same time help them achieve their goals? We will discuss this with parents in the next article.
So today I will share this with you. All parents who love learning are welcome to leave messages in the comment area. If you have any educational confusion, you can also leave messages in the comment area. Let's work hard and make progress together. Thank you for your careful reading of
