Since becoming a left-behind mother, my life trajectory has become simple and clear. In addition to the small room, there is a small square downstairs. In addition, I occasionally push my baby to the supermarket next to the community, or take a walk on the road.
is not just a child, just take adults as an example. It is much better to go out and go shopping than to be bored at home. As we went there more times, gradually, everyone had an impression of each other. If you can get along and chat, you will add WeChat. The chat content stopped: "The weather is good, come out and take a walk. Your baby is good at pushing the cart, or your shoes are good, push the connection, etc." There are a few mothers in the community who take care of their children, and most of them are still taken care of by the elderly. Some of them are very rough and wiped with snot, while others are fine, and they are nutritious for every meal. There are all kinds of colors and cannot be judged by one.
However, there are also a very small number of such elderly people, who are older, about 70 or 80 years old, with white hair and a sad face. They have no children and no circle of their own. They often bask in the sun on the stools in the small square and stare blankly alone. Recently, there is an old lady like this. Every time my little kid who is over nine months old is slid in front of her in an walker, , she will stay and look at her curiously for a while. The old man will chat with the little guy. My daughter can't speak, and at most she will babble. My daughter smiled at her two days ago and said, "It seems that I can't die this year." I seem to have heard of this in the countryside. If babies smile at very old people, it means they can still spend the year healthy.
In the afternoon, when I saw me coming out to walk my baby, the old man came over to chat with him. In fact, she was talking about the so-called chat most of the time. The main reason is that she is not local and has a strong accent. I extract the keywords from her nagging and then restore them. All the old man's statements were dissatisfaction and resentment with his husband. When she mentioned him, she did not say that she was a father, but "bare tail". These three words are cursing people on our side. The old man said that he had given birth to six children, two of whom were not taken care of. One of them was born to two years old, with deformities, four nipples, and an abnormal navel, but the child was fat, handsome, and clear-talk. He could say a lot of things at the age of two. It was so cute. But his dad cursed him every day why he didn't die earlier. One of them was not clear until he was aged. It should have been when he was young, so he could express it clearly anyway. The stomach had tide worms , which was very serious. The child was always calling for insects when going to the toilet. She asked her husband to buy medicine to get worms. Her husband ignored it and finally went there. When talking about the excitement, the old man stood up and gestured, pinched the fingernails with his thumb and showed it to me, saying that she was pregnant with so many children, and his husband had never bought her a finger-sized fruit. During the confinement period, he had never bought a chicken. People who had a job outside didn't even buy a bag of salt at home. She was so deducted that she couldn't find any words to describe her. Later, when the children grew up, they sometimes wanted to go to their son's house to check it out, but they didn't even give him the fare for a few dozen yuan. After saying that, I couldn't recognize the regret, saying that there is any way to go about this kind of life, it's too hard.
I asked if the four children are now filial. He said that they are all very good now, and their three sons will give her living expenses every month. After saying that, I started complaining again, and the only thing I could do was listen.
