I don’t know how many people are like me, who are prone to fall and hurt inexplicably since childhood, or there are traces of being scratched on their faces for no reason? The good news is that this kind of trauma is easy to heal, at most it will leave some scars, which is not very harmful.
But there are still some scars that are not so easy to heal. Even if others tell you, "The past cannot be changed, so it is better to forget it and pretend that everything has not happened." But you just can't get through. For example, it will become a scar that was sexually assaulted in childhood that will be a gloomy life.
in "We Have No Secrets" Audrey was violated by Teacher Lin when she was ten years old. At the age of seventeen, she tried to tell her mother about this, but was questioned, "If you don't want to study, just say it directly. There is no need to tell such a lie. If it is true, then why did you like Teacher Lin so much back then?"
Why do adults always want to calm down? Close your eyes and cover your ears, pretending that those disgusting things that you can't bear have never happened. Audrey doesn't understand, so she would rather her life stop and live in a daze.
Wu Xinping in "We Have No Secrets" accused her of being sexually assaulted by her senior in high school, but because her senior's family is rich and powerful, she was beaten and scolded by her mother for being shameless, and took the settlement fund from her senior's father and withdrew the lawsuit.
In order to pretend that nothing had happened, Wu Xinping completely fled the town in her hometown, did not contact anyone, and tried to completely give up the past at a certain stage of her life.
Song Huaixuan in "We Have No Secrets" has a father and a neurotic mother who cheats frequently. She was sexually assaulted countless times by her half-brother when she was very young.
My brother went away from the United States. With his girlfriend and a new and new life, she could only stay in the old house, accompanying her madly hated her mother, ending her old age alone, and dying in the fire she set off.
No one can truly escape the nightmare, as it was written in the book, "Audrey lay in bed, tossing and turning, and after a lot of hardships, she fell into a nightmare. When she saw the teacher, she realized in despair that the teacher's figure was so clear and real in the dream, and she turned into a child's figure in the dream. She lost her. After losing all the experiences after adulthood, he was taken into that classroom again. Sitting on the table, looking at the teacher, preparing for the next instruction. "
No one can truly escape the nightmare of the past. As written in the book, many years later, Wu Xinping's high school classmates mentioned that incident back then, and still insisted that "the seniors are so good, so many girls like him, there is no need to be tough, and many girls want to be with him. Isn't Wu Xinping slandering him like this just for blackmail?"
No one can truly escape the nightmare, As written in the book, Wu Xinping talked about his experience of being violated. He was slapped on the ground by his father and scolded by his mother. "A girl is drunk while wearing a short skirt and is wrong, and she is also wrong." And what she is most worried about is "If the matter spreads, how will others view their parents, and how will they laugh at their lack of tutoring?"
When will the wound heal? Can the wound heal? The author did not give a clear answer. Audrey had no answer, and Song Huaixuan had no answer, but Wu Xinping found the answer - self-help.
As long as you don’t want to give up on yourself, no one can really give up on you, even your incompetent parents can’t do it. Are you right? Come on, rush through that hurdle.
pictures from the movie "The Game Can't Say"
