Meet such a very well-behaved little girl. She is the eldest of her mother and the second of her father. Although the sister above is also connected by blood, the two are not close; the younger brother below is still young and needs to help his mother take good care of her because she still has a third child in her belly.
No matter whether at home or in school, the little girl can always do things that are beneficial to her through other people's words and deeds, and will not directly conflict with others. Although the little girl has always been competitive and wants to compete with others, she never shows it. Instead, she does it silently when she sees others doing it.
She always carefully observes other people's colors and deals with other people's emotions. If others are unhappy, she does not stimulate others. If others are happy, she will laugh with others. So considerate and sensible, but it always makes people feel distressed. Children should be innocent and lively, rather than being sophisticated and sleek as adults.
The little girl once said that her mother listened to her father and took good care of her sister's emotions. If the sister is unhappy, her mother will try every means to make her happy; if the father loses his temper, her mother never confronts her tits, but follows her father's will, lowering her eyebrows and listening to her father telling everything.
So, she never makes her sister angry, nor does she make her younger brother angry, nor does she make her mother angry. When they are unhappy, she doesn't say anything, but just does things silently. When they are happy, she follows them happily. Because she doesn't "make mistakes", her parents and sisters like it.
At school or outside, she listens carefully to everyone around her. When she returns home, she will say what she says according to her mother's emotions and keeps consistent with the people around her. Mom and dad are happy, and she is also happy; mom and dad will give her corresponding rewards.
Once, a boy who often plays with him complains to his mother about the teacher. The boy's mother is very angry, and the girl's mother is good friends with the boy's mother, and she is also indignant. So when the girl's mother asked about the girl's situation at that time, she looked at her mother and the boy's mother's emotions and said the same thing as the boy.
The girl's mother believes in the girl because the girl has always been like that at home. So, the boy and the girl's mother attacked the teacher and asked the teacher to explain. Fortunately, there were three other children on the scene at that time. They restored the facts and the boy admitted his mistake for his exaggeration.
The girl's mother didn't say the girl, maybe she knew why the girl said that. The girl's performance is no different from that at home. She just followed the boy's words and made the boy's mother happy and in line with her own mother, and did not do anything else.
Is it natural for a little girl who is so understanding and observing her expression? It shouldn't be true, her behavior was deeply influenced by her mother and family. The girl's family situation was revealed, and her mother was not just observing her expressions, cautiously and tremblingly.
As the saying goes, "A father must have a son, and a mother must have a daughter." Whatever a family is like, family members will be like. Children are deeply influenced by their parents. The living conditions of the original family affect the current living conditions of the children. Children will not shape their lives out of thin air, they can only draw experience from their families.
A drop of water drops into a bottle containing ink, and the water will turn black. The bottle's space is sealed, like a sealed home environment that constantly affects the members inside. What the adults do, the child will do, unless he escapes from that environment and goes somewhere else.
There are many things in the world that can be passed on, blood, culture, and spirit, and the same is true for those concepts rooted in the heart. Although human nature is free, maintaining nature also requires free space. However, everyone is not free and is in a sealed family environment.
Many concepts rooted in bone marrow come from parents or original families. It is this sealed environment that keeps them immersed in them all the time, allowing them to change their original whiteness and dye the color of the family dyeing vat.Maybe they themselves are unwilling to change, but their strong desire to survive forced them to change.
When a swan is put into a flock of ducks, it will forget that it can fly high; when a dog is put into a flock of wolves, it will chase its prey wildly. The impact of the environment on a person is self-evident. The biggest impact of life is the influence of the original family. If you jump out, you will have a broad sky. If you can't jump out, you will be on the spot.
