Lin Chi-ling was married three years ago to a member of the Japanese group "Free Brothers" (EXILE) AKIRA (KIRA) and the two have a son after marriage, and the child will turn one year old in December this year.
During this period, Lin Chiling took her husband and children back to Taiwan, China to visit relatives and friends, and the couple took turns to attend the event to earn money from milk powder.
A few days ago, Ryohei Kurosawa was interviewed by a TV program and talked about his foreign marriage with Lin Chi-ling.
In fact, before this, Lin Chi-ling also talked about her marriage with Kurosawa Ryohei, revealing that the two have never quarreled after marriage because both parties have gentle personalities and rarely have conflicts in life.
Once there are signs of disputes, Sister Zhiling will write down what she wants in her heart. She believes that many hurtful words are caused by improper words, so she chooses to express them in words. During the writing process, she can digest negative emotions and the words she uses naturally become polite.
AKIRA's statement is consistent with Lin Chiling. He said that the couple respect each other and never quarrels. Because they have never quarrel, he is very curious about the way his wife quarrels.
Kurosawa Ryohei revealed that when they encounter differences of opinion, they usually communicate rationally and then reach a consensus. The host asked which party usually makes more concessions. Ryohei smiled and said, "Because it is mutual respect, we will all give in."
When Lin Chi-ling attended the event, she couldn't help crying when talking about her new mother's life, because the process was too hard, which made her suffer from low points in her life and suffered from postpartum depression .
She thanked her husband during the visit and said that she could only regain her confidence by relying on AKIRA's help and support.
The postpartum difficulties mentioned by Lin Chiling include physical changes in addition to the frustration of new mothers.
Zhiling , which has a supermodel figure, has a weight soared to more than 60 kilograms after giving birth. It takes a lot of effort to reduce it. On the one hand, she maintains her figure and on the other hand, she takes care of her babies independently. She only sleeps for three hours a day, and the process is extremely painful.
Kurosawa Ryohei knew that it was not easy for his wife, so he took the initiative to learn how to make chicken soup for Zhiling to nourish his wife. He would also get up in the middle of the night to feed his son and change his diapers to let Zhiling rest well.
In order to be a good father, he will watch parenting videos on video websites and feed the children in a more scientific way, while also avoiding couples from arguing about educating their children.
He described his son as a father when he was born, but now he has grown up a little, his eyes and skin are like Zhiling, and his nose is like him.
Lin Chiling stayed in Japan from pregnancy to delivery, and did not return to Taiwan, China until the child was ten months old. Chiling, who was alone in a foreign land, was particularly lonely. Kurosawa Ryohei said that his family would help take care of Chiling and the child.
If you meet a couple who are busy, Liangping will ask his mother and sister to help take care of the baby. This can also be seen from the side that Zhiling gets along well with her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, and the Kurosawa family does not seem to hire a childcare nanny.
He said that his wife never loses her temper in front of her family, including when she encounters very distressed things in the process of educating her son, which made him very impatient or angry.
The host asked Kurosawa Ryohei what was the biggest change after Lin Chi-ling became a mother compared to before marriage. Ryohei suddenly praised his wife in Chinese for "becoming more beautiful".
He further explained that perhaps the outside world thinks that women who have given birth will have a distorted figure and aging appearance, but in fact, after Zhiling became a mother, her inner strength became greater, making her more beautiful.
When Lin Chi-ling got married, she only knew a little bit of life-like Japanese. When she fell in love with AKIRA, she also had to rely on her best friend to help translate love letters. It can be imagined that her Japanese level is not enough to cope with local life.
So, Lin Chi-ling studied Japanese seriously after marriage and hired a personal tutor.
Kurosawa Ryohei talked about an interesting thing that he could not forget.
He revealed that Japanese oral expressions of men and women. Lin Chiling once learned Japanese that he said "awesome", but the teacher was shocked.
The teacher told Zhiling that the wording of boys in Japanese is too rough and is not suitable for gentle women. He specifically told Zhiling not to learn from her husband to speak Japanese.
mentioned this again, and AKIRA couldn't help but smile, as if she remembered Zhiling's ridiculous side.
