First of all, we should understand why mobile phones attract children, or why mobile phones are very attractive. Before answering this question, let’s summarize what you can do with your phone. Today's mobile phones are very smart, not only limited to the basic functions of making phone calls and sending text messages. In addition to bringing various conveniences in life, more people use it for entertainment and entertainment. Mobile phones have replaced people's wallets, which are safe and convenient. There is no doubt that you can have no dime in your pocket, but your phone cannot have a little power. Mobile phones have hit the camera industry, and the photos taken by mobile phones with various smart functions are often no less than ordinary cameras. The mobile phone replaces the dictionary, and the query function is very convenient. Mobile phones replace newspapers and magazines, and various real-time consultations are emerging one after another. Mobile phones have replaced books, and e-books are already dazzling. Mobile phones replace gaming consoles, and many people are addicted to it and cannot extricate themselves. Mobile phones have replaced TVs, and color TVs at home have become decorations... It can be said that mobile phones have become an indispensable electronic product. Not only teenagers, but even adults cannot do without mobile phones.
According to many friends around you, children use mobile phones, in addition to playing games, they also use short videos to learn. Very few children use mobile phones to query the answers to homework, use calculator function to calculate math problems, and use translation function to do foreign language questions. In the long run, children's academic performance plummeted and their vision is damaged. The bad content on the Internet is very likely to affect children's thinking and cognition, which can be said to be harmful without any benefit.
Someone may ask, I only give my children limited time to play with my phone, and turn on the teenager mode
, so that they can play and learn from the corresponding content. Is this OK? Of course not! Just imagine, if we usually watch some movies and TV series on short video platforms, do we still have a strong urge to review the whole film after watching it? No! Because this fast-paced information browsing is the feature of the short video platform, and fast-paced content is not quickly accepted by children, but will become more and more addicted to using mobile phones. It is difficult for adults to control themselves, let alone children? Besides, children do not learn by themselves by themselves, but instead try every means to avoid various restrictions.
So how can you prevent your children from becoming addicted to mobile phones? I personally summarized the following methods:
First, we must set an example. Parents are role models for our children. We should restrain ourselves and not play with mobile phones around our children. This has a great impact on our children. If possible, we should buy more books to let children learn various knowledge from physical books and cultivate a reading habit and hobby. This is completely feasible!
Second, we should arrange our time reasonably so that we can leave time to spend with our children, instead of using electronic products to pass on the children, otherwise the children will inevitably use games to kill time. In the long run, we will inevitably develop dependence, and then the children's bad habits will become more and more serious.
Third, mobile phones are an indispensable electronic product in life. Parents cannot be by their children every moment, nor can they control their children's playmates. In other words, contact with electronic products cannot be completely avoided. What's more, in some cases, children need to take online classes through their mobile phones. Then we should be more patient in guiding children to understand which is more important, learning or addiction to games, and let them understand that the more they call the wind and rain in the virtual world, the more empty and lost they will be in reality. The harm caused is very serious. We must use scientific methods to establish a correct understanding for children.
Fourth, many parents are particularly spoiled for their children, feeling that the occasional play with their mobile phones will not have much impact. The poor academic performance of the child is just a temporary malfunction. The child will gradually correct his bad temper. The child is still young and cannot be fierce, otherwise it will leave a psychological shadow on the child... In fact, parents should find suitable methods to communicate effectively with the child, enhance the child's self-control, have good values, cultivate good plans and goals, and indulge children will only make the child think that he is not wrong. Children will align to a lower lower limit instead of learning in a better direction!
Fifth, parents need to pay more attention to children who are already obsessed with mobile phones and are dependent on them. This is the result of long-term influence. They do not cultivate their interests for their children early in the morning, nor do they have the due supervision and education. Your spoiling will only suppress the child's self-control. A good parent-child relationship is the essence of all education. Parents and children have a harmonious parent-child relationship, so communication and guidance with children will be very smooth. On the contrary, children will not listen to their parents at all, and will not take your suggestions and instructions to heart. They will also feel that parents are annoyed. Moreover, their children's life will become more boring, because they will no longer feel the warmth of the family and the joy of life.
