There is sunshine in your heart, and there will be scenery in your eyes.
The right to make mistakes for children: make children like children
Make a child become timid, then deprive him of the "right to trial and error".
If a child is criticized and beaten and scolded once he makes a mistake, he will lose the desire to explore in the future and become a "good child" who looks at the face of adults.
should let them learn from trial and error.
When a child makes a mistake or makes a mistake, parents should not give too much criticism, but should let the child bear the consequences directly caused by the act fault or the mistake, which will cause the child to consciously make up for the mistake and correct the mistake.
Only in life can children learn to try and make mistakes.
Parents let go within the safe range and do not manipulate their children in the name of "for your good", so that children can find their direction in their lives through repeated explorations.
Give children unconditional support: Let children focus on what they love
Children will be happy for a valuable and meaningful life.
For example, find what you like to do, help friends or classmates, manage your time, make an activity plan, and join a team or organization you like.
If the child can get the support of his parents, his happiness index will double.
Focusing on what you love is a luxury in itself, but the rewards it brings are infinite.
The best education is to make the child become himself. Parents can sing and applaud their children's love, which is a great encouragement for children.
Give children an optimistic attitude: Let children be in adversity and still have hope
Optimistic children generally have no bad luck.
If parents are positive in their life, can always see the two sides of things, and actively find a way out when encountering difficulties, then their children will be infected by this optimistic attitude and will not easily develop pessimism.
Compared with perfect parents, children need more optimistic parents. Even if life has many difficulties, we must restrain ourselves in front of our children, learn to smile, and say repeatedly, "No problem, everything is fine."
Give children a harmonious family atmosphere: Let children experience the temperature of intimate relationship
An educator once said: "The highest purpose of all education is to form a personality. In the growth of everyone's life, there is no teacher more important than parents. The best tutor is husband and wife's love."
Couple relationship determines the temperature of a family. Parents’ love is the best model for intimate relationships for children, which will affect their future interactions with their partners and know how to love themselves and others.
Studies have found that parents often quarrel more dangerous than divorce, and these children are more likely to be emotionally unstable than children from harmonious families.
Children from divorced families are not necessarily unhappy. As long as both husband and wife maintain the decent decency they deserve, respect each other, and give the child enough sense of security.
Give children the feeling of beauty: Let children be full of infinite enthusiasm for life
Don’t forget the original intention of setting out because you are in a hurry to rush to go. If you want to be a happy person, go get close to beautiful things.
Beauty exists everywhere in life, we must guide children to discover and create beauty.
A bouquet of flowers on the side of the road, a butterfly in the grass, a touch of sunset at sunset... are all the beauty that children stop to appreciate. Only by protecting quietly can this moving beauty be broken.
Parents create a sense of ritual, which will also allow children to feel the beauty of life.
Children who are valued in childhood will have strong self-confidence and confidence.
With the five growth energy given by parents, such as trust, security, ritual, acceptance, and optimism, a child will release his or her happiness wherever he goes. He can live his life in the way he likes, his heart is rich and his life is fulfilling.
Source: Xinhua News Agency
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