I don’t know if the more painful it is, the less likely it is to be remembered. At that time, he was so desperate that he was born, but now there are only fragments of his memories left.
Remember, at the noon when I gave birth to my first child. Suddenly, water flowed out from below, and I just shouted: Oh my god! The whole family surrounded me and they were stunned for a few seconds. We reached a consensus conclusion:
baby is about to be born.
Then the whole family was like crazy. While comforting me, they were busy and anxious, their faces full of anxiety...
Waiting to the hospital, everything seemed to be still. The doctor came over and looked at the cervix and said: Wait, the time has not come yet. Then, the whole family returned to normal, and the husband stayed, and the others should do whatever they should go home!
It was okay when I was born in the boss. I waited for less than 2 hours and saw the ones in the same bed being pushed in. I thought it would be me next. When it really came to me, I finally breathed a sigh of relief. But when I gave birth to my second child, I completely collapsed. I watched others push into bed one by one, and it was not time for me to hurt over and over again, and I stayed up from the evening until late at night. When I was pushed in, even my husband felt like he was going to fall asleep.
is not a turn, it has to be pushed forward. amniotic fluid is not enough. People are bleeding when giving birth to a baby. Is it here to run water? The doctor has given all kinds of injections, no matter whether he is smooth or digging, it is enough to give birth.
baby, torture people before they even come out. Not to mention giving birth to a baby, it hurts anyway. It hurts everywhere, it is numb to see anything, and it is wrong to do anything.
is the anesthetic that is effective? But I hope to have a try. It’s not that it doesn’t hurt, but that I forgot the pain when I was born. I realized that it really hurts after giving birth.
The mood of looking at the baby is also different:
1. Giving a girl: Whoever wants to give birth to a boy will give birth to someone, I love whoever I don’t have any more, but I ended up getting another stab.
2. Giving birth to a boy: Complete the indicators, you won’t be killed. Have you sent me to torture me? Afterwards, yes.
3. Not beautiful when born: Alas, that's it, he looks as ugly as his father anyway.
4. It’s a bit pretty when I was born: This is what I gave birth to, and the hard work is not in vain.
5. Finally, the boy stayed and the girl took it away.
I didn’t expect that the one who valued boys the most was me.
Look at the husband's appearance:
1. Seeing the husband's appearance in the hospital: I knew that this man could not do anything, and indeed, it was really SB;
2. Look at the husband's appearance with the childbirth: It's great if someone is with him, otherwise I'm really scared; it would be great if I could share the pain;
3. Look at the mandate after giving birth: Why isn't he? I should let him go.
4. Look at how he takes care of his child and me: it’s okay to fight, but I’ll leave it to you for taking care of the child in the future.
5. Follow him home: I am still the one who is stupid in his work. No matter what, I will sleep for three days and three nights first!
About breastfeeding:
1. Eat, you eat, you are thirsty, you are sucking!
2. It hurts, but it’s gentle, why can’t I eat it anymore? Let’s go again...
3. Can I change my position?
It’s better to buy a breast pump. The mother and the mother are never on the same channel. When I don’t want it, you want it; when you want it, I really want to sleep. The key is that when I eat milk, I have to cooperate with you!
About sleeping:
1. Coax the baby for half an hour, wake up for 3 minutes, and I was just teasing you?
2. Why do you always fall asleep when we are most awake and smile when we have a charming smile when we are fighting with our eyelids?
3. Is my arms made of sponges? Is it necessary to sleep in my arms? Is there a thorn in the bed? Why did I cry as soon as I put it down?
4. I was shouted in the middle of the night by crying: feeding, feeding, feeding...
About Postpartum depression :
1. I am numb, how can I have time to be depressed? I can relieve my worries after a while, do you understand?
2. It is happiness to pick up the child, but it is depressed if you let go. You are in a mood for more than ten times a day and you are depressed at any time.
3. I want to sit while lying, I want to stand while sitting, I want to lie while standing, I feel irritated when I see my family, I feel pitiful when I see my friends, and I want to cry when I see my children.
The most difficult thing is to pee. I really need someone to help me when I go to the toilet. I can’t walk at all. Even if I touch someone, I feel pressured. I don’t have the strength to have my eyes and my face turns white. Having a child is really a serious illness.
If you haven’t had a child, it’s best to go to the confinement center. If you really can’t go, you must say hello in advance. If you can help, you can help. If you can’t help, get away as soon as possible. It’s best to exercise when you are pregnant. It’s really less painful.
What is scientific fertility? Just a little less pain.
If there is any suggestion?
1. Don’t buy things before giving birth. It will prove that it will be a burden afterwards. It is best to buy a gift package for delivery. Don't buy anything else.
2. It is recommended to go to a confinement center and not to go to a senior maternal and child health hospital. No matter how advanced the hospital is, it is a hospital, and the service is not that good. The hospital level is the same now. If you can’t go to the confinement center, you can find someone close to your home.
3. The difference between good health and poor health is obvious in the delivery room, so whether you should prepare for physical fitness is up to you!
4. If you have a doctor around you, it is best to contact more. If you don’t have to learn some traditional Chinese medicine technology online, it can really solve big problems.
5. Many mini programs have very professional questions and answers, such as "maternity and infant health risk control". Scientific parenting requires authoritative answers.
After giving birth, you can have ten thousand moods a day. Postpartum depression is not an individual phenomenon, just like a common phenomenon. It is not a serious illness, as long as you are mentally strong enough to heal yourself. Just like this sentence
