Although I am a female, I don’t want my child to follow my surname in the future, because, in my perception, I follow my father’s surname, and of course the child also needs to follow my father’s surname.
Nowadays, many families have two children with their father and mother's surnames. When they go out to play with their two children, they call their children's names not the same surname, which can easily make others mistakenly think that they are second marriages with one child each.
, also, when the elderly look at the child, they obviously prefer a child with their surname.
It's like this. At the beginning, the daughter-in-law insisted on her younger son following her last name. She said that she had the final say on the child she gave birth to. The eldest son followed his husband's surname, and the younger son took his surname to follow his surname, which was fair.
As a result, when my eldest son was in his teens, my grandfather bought two shops and said that it was for his eldest grandson and asked a lawyer to make a notarization. And the young grandson has no share.
Now, the younger grandson is seven or eight years old, and the two children are not very close, because the grandparents are good to the younger grandson, and the grandparents are good to the eldest grandson, and the grandparents are not as good as the grandparents, so the eldest brother's food and clothing cost much better than the second brother.
The family lives in a villa bought by the elderly and does not go out alone. The young grandson is like living under someone's roof every day.
That day, the grandmother said that the young grandson quarreled with his mother, why didn’t he have the same surname as his father, brother and grandfather? He also said that the young classmates all took their father’s surname, why did he have to take his mother’s surname?
, I think the separation of two children is a man-made conflict.
A neighbor in our hometown has always lived in my grandmother's house, which means that his father is a son-in-law. So, he followed his grandfather's surname.
Recently, I met him and was going through various procedures. He said that his surname is not his grandfather's surname, he is the grandson of his grandparents, and he wants to change his original surname.
We asked him, don’t you mind the trouble?
He said, "Don't bother me, my son's one has changed, our surname is Liu."
Yes, Chinese people, especially men, have a complex. Uncle Li downstairs from
, is in his 70s and has changed his surname. His original surname is Pan, with his son and grandson.
is quite persistent. He said, "I didn't expect that when our old village heard that I was taking adults and children back to the village, the village then distributed me a homestead. They said, "It's better to come back, it's still my family."
says that it doesn’t matter who is named Ye.
really doesn't matter? If it doesn’t matter, just follow your father’s surname. Why do you have to fight for your surname?
is quite interesting chicken soup.
