For mothers, children are the continuation of life, the inheritance of the family, the crystallization and bond of love, and the arrival of a new life is the best hope given to God.
The arrival of a new life should have been a happy thing, but for some special families, it is mixed.
In 2019, 67-year-old Tian Xinju got pregnant unexpectedly. After this incident was fermented by the media, it attracted widespread attention in the society. However, Huang Weiping and his wife Tian Xinju did not care about the voices from the outside world. They insisted on giving birth to a child.
The arrival of a new life brings happiness to the old couple and many troubles to the two of them. The son and daughter are incomprehensible, and raising children when they are old makes them feel exhausted, which is something they have never expected.
Retirement life
2019 is a turning point in the birth of Huang Weiping and Tian Xinju and his wife, and it is also the beginning of their new life.
That year, Huang Weiping was 68 years old, his wife Tian Xinju was 67 years old, The couple worked together for most of their lives. When they were young, they had quarreled and quarreled like many couples, but in the end they were as reconciled as before.
When he was young, Tian Xinju had a bad temper and was more willful. Huang Weiping was always tolerant of her. When the two had conflicts, Huang Weiping always admitted his mistake and apologized to coax Tian Xinju.
Huang Weiping used to be a lawyer and Tian Xinju was a doctor. Both of them were very busy at work when they were young.
After getting married, they gave birth to a man and a woman one after another. Both of them were busy with their careers, and the children were raised by their grandparents.
They have been retired for many years now and are not that busy anymore. The pensions of the two of them are more than 10,000 yuan. You don’t have to worry about life. Sometimes they can subsidize their children a little.
After retirement, Huang Weiping liked to grow flowers and grass, Tian Xinju liked to dance square dance, and the two of them enjoyed each other. Since Tian Xinju is a health care doctor, the two elderly people have been well maintained.
But the birth of a child breaks their peaceful life.
Age-aged mothers
We all know that women usually get menopausal around the age of 50, and they can't get pregnant again after that, but 67-year-old Tian Xinju got pregnant unexpectedly.
In 2019, Tian Xinju suffered from cerebral infarction . The doctor prescribed some traditional Chinese medicine for blood circulation and removing blood stasis . After taking , Tian Xinju's cerebral infarction slowly healed, but Tian Xinju stopped menstruation for more than 10 years and suddenly came again.
One day, Tian Xinju suddenly realized that she was pregnant unexpectedly.
The two old men were surprised and happy. They dared not speak out, and they didn't even say anything about their own children.
When I went to the hospital for examination, even the doctor was surprised.
After returning home, the two discussed whether to have this child?
Tian Xinju thinks that children are angels and are gifts given to us by God. Retirement and staying at home are also idle. Having a child can relieve us of boredom.
Huang Weiping also wants to keep this child. He was busy with work when he was young and did not take care of the child. He felt that he had not fulfilled his father's responsibilities. Now he has the opportunity to be a father again. He wants to make up for his previous regrets.
On October 25, 2019, Tian Xinju was pushed into the delivery room, and a few hours later, a baby girl was born.
Huang Weiping, who was old, was very happy and named his daughter Tianci.
The arrival of her daughter brought joy and troubles and sorrows to the two elderly people.
Outside pressure
7-year-old gave birth to a girl was a big news at the time, and overwhelming public opinion was coming.
At that time, Huang Weiping's eldest granddaughter was already in college and his younger granddaughter was in junior high school.
Someone wishes them that they said: "The old couple are in good health, have enough financial resources, and have mature minds, so they can be raised. Many young people may not be able to meet these conditions."
said incomprehensiblely: " Raising children requires energy and physical strength. As they get older, they will not be able to bear it."
The old couple can ignore the outside world's incomprehension, but their son and daughter blamed them, which makes them a little sad.
During Tian Xinju's confinement period, my daughter never came once.
even came for a long time later. Both his daughter refused to interact with them. After being discharged from the hospital, Huang Weiping hired a nanny to relieve the pressure of the two, but this was not a long-term solution. Although the two had a pension of more than 10,000 yuan, they had to make careful calculations to raise their children.
After a few months, they quit their nanny and took care of their children themselves.
Xiao Tianci made a fuss every night, and they couldn't sleep well at night. During the day, Xiao Tianci continued to sleep, and Tian Xinju had to make up for the sleep.
All housework in the family fell into Huang Wei Ping, he goes to the supermarket to shop early every morning, and occasionally buys milk powder, diapers and other children's supplies. After he comes back, he has to cook vegetables and do housework.
The child is often sick, and Huang Weiping takes him to the hospital for treatment. Sometimes the child suddenly has a fever in the middle of the night. Huang Weiping, who just fell asleep, had to get up and take his daughter to the emergency room.
These things are nothing to a young father, but for an elderly man who is almost 70, he is really a little helpless.
Although he has retired, Huang Weiping still has some work. In his busy housework, he also has to write some materials and earn some milk powder money.
The originally peaceful retirement life has become a life like a war, and Huang Weiping cannot bear it.
Happy life
these few months Huang Weiping seems to be much older. His daughter knows that it is not easy for the elderly couple to raise a daughter and feel sorry for them, so she took the initiative to help.
The moment she hugged her sister, the well-behaved sister didn't cry or make a fuss, but she cried. No matter how old the two were, they were blood-connected.
Thinking of the hard work of her parents over the past few months, she regretted her unfilial piety.
Later, the son also understood her parents, and the daughter-in-law sometimes came to help the two old people take care of Xiao Tianci.
The family seemed to have returned to the past, but there was another small member in the family.
Although Huang Weiping is old and cannot take Xiao Tianci to exercise with him, he will take her out for a walk every day, and sometimes the family will go out for a trip.
The old couple has a high level of education. After Xiao Tianci grew up, they told him stories and taught her to recognize words. Under their careful training, Xiao Tianci grew up healthily.
Later, a media found them and wanted to shoot videos for them. The effect was very good after the video was released. The three of them even started live broadcasts. The audience praised them for the brave.
ending
Huang Weiping and his wife did not care about the rumors outside. They insisted on giving birth to their daughter at the age of 67. Faced with the incomprehension of their son and daughter, they could only bear it silently.
They are doing their best to take care of this new life. Although they are hard and tired, they are willing to do so. Fortunately, their son and daughter understand them, and the family is as reconciled as before, and take care of the new member of the family together.
Only you know whether the shoes fit their feet. Everyone has different experiences, and there will inevitably be differences in how they deal with things.
We should not talk about others easily. How do you know what others really feel? Maybe they feel very happy. We just need to live our own life well.
Let us wish this family of three more happiness.
