Every child is a unique individual with a unique perspective and thinking pattern.
From ancient times to the present, there are filial sons under the sticks. Many parents use this method to educate their children, but they do not know that their children only submit because they are beaten. In fact, they do not agree with their parents' opinions. Next time they make trouble, they will ask you to teach them through various methods. They can only treat the symptoms, not the root cause.
children are copies of parents. In the process of violence against children, children also commit violence against the world and their children. In real life, many times, parents' words and deeds may affect children's outlook on life, world outlook, values, and even determine their life direction. What should we do in family education ? I think the first thing to do is to establish a correct outlook on life. This is the first place. What is a outlook on life? It’s faith! belief? The answer is very simple! Why? Although children cannot say it out, they can personally experience the parents' attitude towards life. Instead of instilling justice and conscience into them with your mouth, it is better to let parents demonstrate in their own way in life. It should be said that doing this is a supreme method. I think whether children can be properly educated and guided is not about what knowledge and other educational technologies to teach them, but whether parents themselves, as individuals, can have a lifestyle to correctly perform their duties.
Children's words and deeds are like mirrors, reflecting the souls of the family and parents, so let the children be well and play an exemplary role first. Parents are the most direct and authoritative role models for their children. Before educating children, parents must first do it themselves. The daily behaviors of parents or educators are the most convincing for children's personality development.
Sometimes I really hate this kind of self! The greater the disappointment of your child, the more you are, and the education of your child is very failure. Thinking about saying it carefully, it turned into a coercion. How long can it last? How much harm will it cause to him? Will he erase his thoughts and passion?
Education is about caring and patience, plus the way children can understand, cultivate the body and mind, and form a sound personality, in order to be able to calmly deal with various changes in life. It is something that cannot be obtained in school and textbook knowledge. The main burden falls on parents. We must help our children develop self-control and strengthen their character development. We must treat our students as a virtue. True love does not mean to accommodate children and let them do whatever they want, but to always restrict and educate them. We can guide our children to grow up healthily through praise, encouragement, criticism and punishment. We should not use criticism, punishment and blame, but it can influence their ideas through actions, change their behavior patterns, and be a good member of society.
History parents always play a vital role in their children's growth. In this process, parents are not only their children's teachers, but also their children's friends, and even their most important partners on their children's life path. What a great power that would be if we could all do it!
