Parents are the best teachers for their children. Every word and action of parents will affect their children. If they want their children to grow up healthily, parents must avoid the following wrong parenting methods!
Provoking discord
"Do you like dad or mom?"
"Do you like grandparents or grandparents?"
I believe many parents have asked their children this question, which will make their children lack trust in family relationships and become insecure over time. A healthy family should be harmonious and friendly, and it is not necessary to compete for the children's hearts.
Apply pressure
"Dad and your mother will count on you for the happiness of the rest of their lives!"
"I have paid so much for you, you can't let my expectations for you."
Many parents will put their unfinished dreams on their children, but the child is not born to inherit your life, but to experience and energy in his life. Children are children, parents are parents, and everyone has their own topics, so don’t confuse them.
Language violence
"Why did I give birth to you like this!"
"It's better to give birth to you than to give birth to you char siew !"
When a child makes a mistake, many parents will be qi and blood, saying something hurtful, and it is recommended that parents not do this, as it will leave indelible harm to their children. When a child makes a mistake, parents should keep calm and help him solve the problem together, rather than accuse him from the opposite side.
In general, parents who don’t say the above three sentences have beaten most parents, and your children will definitely grow up happily and healthily!
