In fact, sometimes we always feel that children today are too fragile, and they like to cry more and more. And we are not good at using some methods to change this problem. Of course, if we can find the most fundamental reason, , then it is not difficult to change the problem in the end.
Why do children like to cry? The main reason why this problem occurs in
is that we did something wrong during the golden period of parenting. Usually children's attitude changes, which is closely related to adults. For example, if the father in the family has a very high status, the father will occupy the dominant position. They won’t have so much patience in the process of educating their children, so they will discipline their children through spanking and scolding and humiliating.
The most ironic thing is that they think that only such an educational method can make children grow up. actually does not want to suffer such experiences at all. Moreover, under this model, children can only rely on their parents for their own will. Once they encounter some difficulties, they can only solve the problem by crying.
Furthermore, some children's ideas are not satisfied at all. Some parents do not like to respect every idea of their children. They feel that there is no need to follow their children's ideas. After all, children are still young and their ideas are not counted at all. But the more you do this, the more likely your child will be to get farther away from his parents, and they also want to cut off relations with his parents.
There are many children who are not willing to date their parents, because they feel that there is no so-called dignity in front of their parents, and is naturally not good to survive in an environment without dignity.
So if you want to change this problem, you should grasp these two reasons and find the most fundamental reason in order to change the status quo. This means that as parents, we should respect every idea of our children. When children make certain demands, if they can satisfy them, then they can satisfy them. This is not harmful to children.
If we always stop our children's ideas, or never satisfy our children's ideas, , then the distance between the children and their parents will eventually become farther and they are unwilling to interact with their parents.
Furthermore, we must not treat children in extreme ways. Even if there are some mistakes in , we should treat them in a kind way. because in this way, they will not only be aware of their problems, but also correct them in a more correct way.
If we can't even do this well, then the child will become a very cowardly person. They will only solve the problem by crying. will definitely not help them in their future development.
So we must not always dislike children and only cry. We only need to find the right way and find the real reason. then we can change such problems. Some parents never realize this problem and think that their children are just cowardly people, so it is obviously not good to do so. After all, children also need to be understood by their parents.
