After children go to school, their learning tasks will become heavier and heavier. Now the education of children is a major concern for parents. In addition to arranging one's own work every day, he is worried about his children's academic issues. Primary school students’ homework is not difficult, but it makes many parents feel headaches.
What makes parents feel that the headache is not the homework itself, but the incredible reason why children are so struggling with homework. Parents also sacrificed a lot of time and used a lot of tricks to tutor their children's homework. Sometimes tutoring children with homework is a torture and can also cause harm to parents.
The father tutored his child to do his homework, but he was too excited to cause a hand fracture
In a family in Hangzhou, the child returned home as usual to prepare for his homework. The father also occasionally tutored his child to do his homework, but left a huge harm to himself. The academic performance of primary school students needs to be supervised by parents, because they have not yet established good self-discipline, so parents have to work hard.
Basically, one of the parents is responsible for the homework problems of children, and generally speaking, the mother is much more responsible. This student is usually also responsible for his studies, but his mother happened to have something to do, so his father can only tutor the child to do his homework. on a homework question, my father talked back and forth several times.
Adults think that they should have said it once, but after talking it several times, they have lost patience. The thing that made the father collapse the most was that after he talked so many times, the child was still confused. After yelling at his son, the son simply put down his pen and stopped doing his homework. Such resistance from makes parents unable to resist their emotions anymore.
So the father looked at his son and was so angry that he hit his hand hard at the table. The son was frightened, and then his father's hand began to hurt severely. The father thought he had used too much force and his hand would be healed after a while. , but he didn't expect that his hand would get hurt more and more, so he rushed to the hospital for treatment and found that his hand was broken. More and more parents are having "fear of fear" and complain about their bitter history. "fear of fear" has become a new problem for parents, and this symptom is accompanied by physiological reactions. Parents tutoring their children with homework is like experiencing a tribulation, which is prone to emotional out of control and lead to increased blood pressure, which leads to disease. , the parent was straightforward, without , hypertension, , and directly broke his hand. Seeing this parent’s experience, many parents were not mocking him, but empathizing with him . They recalled the bitter history of their tutoring homework. There was a parent who really had his blood pressure soaring to 160 because of his tutoring homework.
Of course, only a few parents who hurt themselves are still hurt. Most people’s first reaction is to lose their temper with their children. A parent got furious about his child for tutoring his child’s homework. The child finally hid in a corner and shivered. The same problem with is because parents are helpless because they can’t explain a calculation problem no matter how they explain it.
Some parents have more methods. They are really angry when tutoring their children for homework, but they are reluctant to beat and scold them when they see that the children are reluctant to beat and scold them, so they find another method. The child’s father put on his clothes on his clothes at night and insisted on going out. I said I was going out for two laps and relax.
Don’t treat “fearing aid certificate” as a joke. Parents should use the correct attitude to tutor their children to learn
Many people will regard this matter as a joke after seeing the news about this Hangzhou father. In fact, the saddest thing is that at this point, this incident is not a joke, but a thought-provoking question. Why do parents now have such big emotional problems in tutoring their children’s homework?
Emotional problems directly affect their health, so people need to pay attention to this matter. Parents should look at their children's learning with the right perspective, and learning problems in primary school students should not be treated with adult standards. parents think that children really don’t understand simple questions because their brains have not yet developed to that stage.
Parents’ impatience is because their children cannot understand their explanation. In fact, they should not ask their children immediately after the explanation. They should give their children a time to digest and let them think about it themselves. The more is, the more parents need to deal with it patiently. Parents should treat their children as children, not as they are on the same day.
Tutoring children's homework is an important part of helping children grow up, and parents should adjust their status. The reason why children are not good at studying is that they are not patient. wants their children to become successful and have achieved success in their studies. Parents should not complain.
Finally, I want to say that the children are still in the development stage and we don’t know what they will look like in the future, so parents please give their children some time to accompany them to grow up, and then there will be no need for parents to tutor their homework.
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