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1. Replenishing nutrition for children is harmful to the spleen and stomach of the child. The spleen and stomach are the base of immunity
Now is an era when children are over-feeded, and most of the diseases of children are "feeded" by over-feeding. Children do not have much emotion, and children have only two kinds of diseases: one is a cold and the other is internal injury. What are internal injuries? Internal injury to diet.
A mother in Shanxi is a typical representative. She said, I really don’t understand. I have supplemented so much nutrition and eaten so many good things for my children, but why does my children always keep growing meat and growing?
I asked: What good things have you given to your children?
She said that one pound of milk every day, one egg every day, and meat every day, changing the pattern, chicken, duck, fish, pork, beef, mutton, protein powder, , calcium tablets, etc., and probiotics, etc. My child’s father and I are reluctant to eat these.
This mother is just the tip of the iceberg, because there are too many children who suffer from spleen and stomach damage caused by excessive feeding.
Nowadays, children are treasures in the family, the little emperor and princess in the family. It is not enough for parents to feed them, as well as grandparents, and grandparents. As soon as I finished my meal, my grandma peeled an apple, and my grandfather brought another grilled sausage. I went out for a while and ate another fried chicken wings , as well as candied haws , various snacks and various junk foods. I don’t care whether the child needs it or not, I just want the child to be happy.
The spleen and stomach of a child cannot hold so much food at all. Gradually, the spleen and stomach of a child become worse and worse. The food he eats cannot be transported or transformed. Either it turns into garbage and stores it in the body and becomes a fat man, or it turns into a small radish head. It is the kind of children with big heads and thin limbs.
One day, you suddenly realized why this child was wilted? Why didn’t he eat anything good? How could he lose his appetite? Mothers who don’t know how to maintain health usually do this: if your child is lacking in nutrition, please give it a supplement to the nutritional supplements you bought for your child tomorrow. Or just coax the child: Be good, after eating this bowl of rice, grandma will take you to McDonald's . Or scare the child: Do you eat it? If you don’t eat, I will hit you!
Smart mothers and mothers who know how to maintain health do this :
If you don’t eat it, don’t eat it. First look at the child’s tongue, then observe the child’s stool. If the tongue coating is thick, greasy, yellow, and bad breath, the stool is dry, hard or sticky and smelly, you will understand in your heart: it turns out that the baby has accumulated food.
So, I suggest that mothers should look for the reasons first if they don’t eat, and don’t force their children to eat. If you force your child to eat, it will not be transformed even after eating.
2. Infusions are severely damaged by the child's yang energy, immunity is getting lower and lower, colds are getting more and more frequent
A mother in Guangdong complained:
My baby is almost 5 years old, her hands are cold, her stool is not formed, she is prone to diarrhea, afraid of cold, and cannot breathe, she catches a cold as soon as she blows, often runs her nose, and coughs at any time. It’s easy to catch a cold, I caught a cold three times this month, which is so worrying.
In fact, it is not just this Guangdong mother. The millions of mothers in China should have the same feeling: children nowadays are really too slutty, like flowers in greenhouses, they cannot be hot, they cannot be cold, and they can catch a cold at any time.
I told this mother in Guangdong that if your child is not born, you must bear all the responsibility as a mother. You have to think carefully about when the child has been like this since then, and what have you done to the child? Does the child give the child an infusion of antibiotics as soon as he catches a cold?
She nodded repeatedly, yes, yes, I gave the child a lot of infusions, and knew that the child was suffering, but there was nothing I could do, the cold had to be cured.
I said, your child’s poor physical condition is caused by infusion.
She wondered why? Isn’t it all about going to the hospital for infusion? How can I cure a cold without infusion? Isn’t the infusion good fast? I really can't stand seeing my child get sick.
explained: One infusion is equivalent to a small operation. So even if the cold liquid is drunk into the stomach, the stomach will not feel well, let alone directly enter our blood vessels. The infusion is an antibiotic. Antibiotics are very cold and cannot be recognized by the human body. They will seriously interfere with the human immune system and weaken the body's self-healing ability. When giving children antibiotics, the symptoms continued for a while, but the disease remained in the body forever. When the body's positive energy attempts to drive away these diseases, when the symptoms appear again, parents are busy taking antibiotics for their children again. This vicious cycle eventually becomes a chronic disease that is prolonged and unhealed.
This mother is a little confused, but how can she get rid of the disease without infusion?
I said that many minor illnesses do not require medicine at all, and some fevers are not necessarily diseases, but a necessary process for children to grow up. Most of the time, when you take antibiotics, not only does not kill bacteria, but instead produce more drug-resistant bacteria. Antibiotics are an anti-aging treatment that only suppresses your symptoms, and do not consider the root cause of the symptoms at all. Kill a thousand enemies and damage yourself by 800. If treatment is needed, you can take traditional Chinese medicine methods. Traditional Chinese medicine is more than a thousand years ahead of Western medicine in treating colds.
This mother seems to just want to pursue the results and said, I just want to know how to improve the child's immunity now, don't catch a cold all the time, can you prescribe a prescription? I can pay for the medical treatment, but the money is not a problem.
So, I gave her three suggestions:
1. Use traditional Chinese medicine to treat the next cold as soon as possible, and do not take infusions again;
2. Cook some yam every day for the child to drink to strengthen the positive energy, strengthen the spleen and stomach, and the positive energy memory, and the evil should not be dried;
3. You can buy some Chinese patent medicine Yupingfeng Powder to take. This medicine is specially used to regulate the cold when you are not strong enough.
3. I am too spoiled to my children. I give them whatever they want. The children drink all kinds of cold drinks every day, causing the children's spleen and stomach to become cold and damp.
A mother said that the child is seven years old and has no shape in his bowel movements. He always has loose stools and . He has to stools three times a day, and he has to stools after eating greasy, raw and cold foods. I didn’t understand before, giving my children antibiotics and antidiarrhea medicines was useless. Now that I have studied traditional Chinese medicine, I dare not take these Western medicines. I would like to ask me, how does traditional Chinese medicine regulate chronic diarrhea ?
I said that if you have diarrhea after eating raw, cold and greasy foods, it should be caused by spleen yang deficiency . Did you always give your children these raw, cold and cold foods?
She seemed to regret it, not to mention it, she was just tears when she thought of it. Maybe I spoil my child too much, maybe I am too ignorant, my child especially likes to drink Coca-Cola. He must drink a bottle every time he eats. If he doesn’t have Coca-Cola, he will cry and don’t eat. And you have to drink iced. I've been drinking it for four or five years, and I guess this is how this disease is suffered.
I said that if you can change the habit of drinking cola, you can slowly treat it without being too nervous. So I prescribed her , Shenling, Poria, Atractylodes, and Atractylodes, and .
The first three medicines in this prescription are ingredients of Sijunzi Decoction, strengthens the spleen and removes dampness, and are used to strengthen the body; the last few medicines are used to stop diarrhea, and they are all very ordinary ingredients, and the medicinal properties are also good, suitable for the conditioning of chronic diarrhea. I told this medicine to be gentle and it takes about a month. If you encounter diarrhea attack, you can use the Chinese patent medicine Huoxiang Zhengqi Liquid. Huoxiang Zhengqi Liquid has an immediate effect on acute diarrhea caused by cold and dampness.
Normally, you can also eat some roasted steamed bun slices and drink some millet and yam porridge. These have the effects of strengthening the spleen, nourishing the stomach and stopping diarrhea.
She used the child for a week and came to give feedback and said that she was so thankful to me. The child's diarrhea showed signs of improvement. Now she only needs one or two bowel movements a day, and it is not as thin as before.
The key point is to let the child get rid of the habit of drinking cold drinks, otherwise diarrhea will not be cured.
4. Many mothers do not know how to educate their children and criticize their children every day, causing their children to feel uncomfortable
For example, this is how the mother in Chengdu is like.
She sent me a WeChat message saying, "I feel my child is autistic, please save me!"
She said that the child is eight years old, a boy, doesn’t like to play with classmates at school, and it’s very quiet at home. I have a bad appetite, I eat more after a while, but I can't eat more after a few days, and I eat more after a few days. The stool is not normal, and constipation and diarrhea alternately. I am very obedient in normal times, but sometimes I don’t listen to it no matter how I say it, and I’m facing me. What's wrong with this kid?
I thought about it carefully and these symptoms add up to a personality disorder syndrome. All symptoms point to one reason: liver qi discomfort.
After a while, the appetite is bad, and the appetite is good. This is because liver qi is uncomfortable, because liver wood overcomes spleen earth; constipation and diarrhea are also a problem with the liver, because the liver is responsible for venting and venting. Only when relaxed, the liver's venting function is normal and the stool is normal. Once nervous or qi is abnormal, the liver's venting function is abnormal. Being obedient and sometimes being stubborn is also a problem with the liver.
There are only two reasons for liver qi discomfort in such a young child: one is congenital. When the mother is pregnant, she is depressed and angry, and the children born will often feel uncomfortable. One is given by the day after tomorrow. Parents put too much pressure on their children. They need their children to do everything best, so that they can keep their children in a state of tension, anxiety and depression. Over time, they will feel uncomfortable.
So, I asked again, do you often criticize your children?
She thought for a long time and said: If this is considered criticism, it would be to criticize him every day when eating, that's all.
The reason is here. You put too much mental pressure on your child. It’s okay to criticize, but never criticize your children while eating. As soon as the child picked up the bowl, the mothers scolded him, and the child's appetite immediately plummeted, either stop eating or just ate a suffocating meal. A child’s spleen and stomach are not good at all. Letting him eat a slurred meal every day is like adding insult to injury, which will cause the spleen and stomach to become weaker and weaker. I would rather not eat than eat pressure rice. You can think about yourself. If someone criticizes you during meals, can you still eat? It’s fine for a day, but every day, can the child’s mood be good? Why do you have to take care of what you don’t want to do?
She seemed to understand something, and was a little silent, but she stopped talking. After a long time, she said, what should I do now? I would like to give you a conditioning solution, thank you very much.
I comforted me and said that there is actually no serious illness, but the child’s liver qi is uncomfortable. If I guess, I suggest you change the way of educating your children. Don’t always ask your children to criticize them. You should encourage and praise them more. You should often say to your children, "Children, you are so good", "Children, you are really amazing". A child is a pure yang body, symbolizing spring. He has a strong qi of growth, which requires care and support, rather than suppression and stifling.
She suddenly realized that listening to your words is better than reading for ten years. I always thought it was the child who had a problem, but it turned out that it was the child who had a problem.
or above are several cases that hurt children's pure yang bodies. I hope that mothers across the country will learn some traditional Chinese medicine and keep them healthy and not make the same mistakes again.
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