In the eyes of parents, no matter what the child looks or does, the child is the favorite of parents. Moments have become a channel for many parents to share their children. Even many mothers have children in many circles of friends.
It is not impossible for parents to have children, because this is a kind of love for children from the heart, and they want to share everything with others . However, it is also very special to show off your baby. If pictures and videos are sent to social platforms, it can sometimes put a burden on the children.
As a parent, should you respect your children's opinions?
There are three reasons why parents post their babies : The first is that no matter whether they are beautiful or ugly, parents just like them and want to record their daily lives; the second is showing off and competing.
For example, their children have good grades and are beautiful and cute. They like to show off their posts and show off with relatives and friends; the third is the school’s requirements. Some schools will ask parents to show their children’s homework. Showing your child is risky. Parents do not pay attention to some things, which may cause great harm to their children!
"If I had known this, I would not have posted my children on my circle of friends." This mother's words are worthy of deep thought
The neighbor's mother especially likes to post the daily life of children in her circle of friends. Since her daughter Mumu's childhood, she has been recording until now in the third grade of elementary school. It has always been very good, but once, when my mother went to school to pick up Mumu, she found that she was missing. The mother was panicked at the time. After searching everywhere for no results, she found the teacher and asked.
The teacher was confused when he heard this. "It was Mumu's aunt who came to pick her up. She not only brought Mumu a lot of toys and snacks, but also knew Mumu's ID number, full name and your name!"
Later, when the teacher saw that the child was really gone, he was also panicked. I hurried to call the principal and found that Mumu was taken away by a woman. At that time, there were many people after school. In addition, this lady not only knew where Mumu went to school, but also knew Mumu's ID number and parents' information , so the teacher did not ask her carefully.
You should pay attention to these key points when posting your baby. I once saw a beloved father showing his child’s ID card in his circle of friends . I don't know if he wants to show off that the child has obtained his ID card. What other reasons? The key is that you can show it. The information on the ID card can be used as an important information blocked.
Parents must pay attention that key information about the child's real name, family address, etc. shall not be disclosed at will. It is easy to be exploited by criminals. Always remember that "the preventive heart is indispensable", always protects the personal safety of children !
Many parents install surveillance probes at home to understand what their children do at home when they go to work, but they don’t know that this is an infringement of their children’s privacy and autonomy.
A variety of maternal and child applications can detect various child health data from pregnancy to child birth. The child’s birth age, and even the mother’s phone number, should be filled in, and supervision will be relatively relaxed. Therefore, it is not recommended that mothers use too many such smart applications.
Positioning watch is actually a double-edged sword , it can help adults determine the location of their children and is also easily hacked.
Children who show off their babies are also under pressure. In some cases, parents can record it themselves, but they cannot send it out. If the situation is serious, it will have a negative impact on the children's psychology, safety and other aspects.
"Key Information" does not disclose the child's real name, specific school, ID number and other key information, so there is no need to disclose it. After all, there may be strangers who are unfamiliar with their phones.If someone takes this information as an article, it will pose a threat to the safety of children. Not all children are willing to "live" in their parents' circle of friends with their real names and specific schools.
If children don't want their parents to expose themselves, or some photos they don't like, so respect their opinions , don't expose them! If parents always tell their children about their shortcomings, saying they are not serious about homework and are not smart, then a series of public criticisms actually erode the child's self-esteem.
If children's self-esteem is frustrated, they will become inferior . Children are young and have no sense of privacy. However, children's privacy should be protected from childhood! Some children who have received self-protection education know not to go with strangers, do not accept toys and snacks from strangers, and call for help when they meet bad people.
Parents should know that these children cannot react for no reason. Behind these wits, must have self-protection education that parents often warn of. Many parents think their children are too young to understand even if they tell them.
In fact, the sooner the child understands self-protection, the more they can protect themselves from harm. It is also important to improve children's safety awareness. When facing strangers, children must remain silent about their situation. This is the most basic way to protect themselves.
