1000 Day Writing Plan Day 304, Monday.
What is in autumn?
has light yellow fallen leaves, sweet grapefruit, the fragrance of osmanthus, and a cup of osmanthus latte with the fragrance of osmanthus and a new and beautiful gathering.
Today is a gathering for growth mothers, but it also fills the incline of chicken baby , and I am probably the most "flat" mother among them. I insist on "chicken baby is not as good as chickens themselves", because if I don't live well in this life, I will not be able to make my children a "fighting cock".
You don’t read, but you expect your child to read books every day
You don’t exercise, but let your child insist on exercises in various ways
You don’t pursue your dreams, but let your child become the best person.
In terms of probability, the probability of success and happiness when you grow up with your children will be greater.
I think lying flat, is not a complete abandonment of " involume ", nor is it a competition to give up everything. is also lying on the floor, some people lying on the sofa, some people lying on the bed, and some people lying on the beautiful scenery in front of them after lying down. Therefore, it also depends on your "lying flat" environment and posture.
" lying flat" is not a bad thing, but a smart attitude towards life. or I would rather understand it as another word "submission", surrender to the arrangements given to me by life, and surrender to the current environment.
For example, during the conversation today, when talking about each other's growth status, everyone was curious about the purpose of my daily public account, such as how to increase fans, how to monetize, how to achieve a closed-loop business... Then I told them that the content is as free as possible and the increase of fans is very slow. The goal of the first stage of writing is to find my own writing flow, build a residence for changing the imagery of life, and make writing my lifestyle. As for the realization of other values, they are all things that can only be discussed based on this foundation.
So, the real lying flat is based on having an objective evaluation of one's own situation, and also controlling one's inner environment.
actually doesn’t have to worry about the concepts of lying flat, rolling in, or getting rid of chicken blood, and spiritual internal friction. If it is only limited to concepts, it is a manifestation of spiritual infreedom.
The true freedom of people is spiritual freedom, and the strongest shackles on people are spiritual shackles. Most people think that such words are empty words, which is not as practical as money or skills. Because only money can provide protection and let yourself live a happy and stable life. Because anyone who talks about spirit may be a pathetic loser in life.
But for an adult, "Who am I, what is life, what is life, what is the meaning of my What is the meaning of my life , what is the meaning of my life, what is the purpose and meaning of my work?" These questions are always there.
Whether you value it or ignore it, care about it or ignore it, you give a thoughtful or hasty and simple answer. In your life, sooner or later, life will prompt you to pay attention to them. Because they all play the kind of role you don't see on the surface, and this effect is much more powerful than you think.
So, sometimes, it’s better to lie down and think clearly about these problems. The road ahead is a road downstream.
