Languages that need to be paid attention to - languages that are easily denied
Above we describe the developmental characteristics of the 2-year-old age period, including the extension of language (the first period of language acquisition) and the extension of sentences (the period of multiple sentences and subordinate sentences). However, during this period, parents need to pay special attention to the common situations in children's language, such as word errors, stuttering, and telling lies. These situations will gradually occur in children around 2 years old. When encountering such situations, most parents adopt a negative attitude. Therefore, we will discuss below what significance this situation has in the development of children's language.
Stuttering children
It is said that 80% of people who suffer from stuttering start from around 2 to 4 years old. But, in fact. Among the 2 to 3-year-olds, many babies will naturally speak in a tone that is somewhat similar to stuttering. This is because the language is rapidly increasing and I want to say a lot of things, but when facing the other person, my ability to speak is not enough, so I become a little stuttering without realizing it. However, if you think about it in reverse, it is enough to prove that young children have a strong desire to master language. Therefore, this phenomenon is a normal phenomenon in the growth period and there is no need to worry too much.
Source: Pigeon Doctor
American scholar Johnson believes: "If a child is confirmed to be a stutter by his parents, it will really become a stutter." This means that if you worry too much about the child's natural stuttering, it will lead to bad results. Especially if some parents suffer from stuttering, they will become more sensitive. When a child stutters a little, he will say to the child: "Slowly, say it again." This will easily make the child realize that his tone of speaking is unnatural. Therefore, it is very important that even when young children stutter or speak normally, they must listen in a relaxed atmosphere.
"Lie" for young children
"Children who tell lies are not good kids", this is a matter of course. However, in the process of children's language development, being able to "tell lies" is a very big progress. Parenting experts have the following narrative about "liars" about young children: 2-year-old and 3-month-old children often wet their pants.
At the beginning, when the mother wipes it clean with a rag while asking "What is this", the child will say very embarrassingly: "Peating." Sometimes he will answer: "Shuishui." In this regard, parenting experts believe that young children can get rid of certain predicaments by "letting lies".
Children start talking based on seeing the real thing with their own eyes "now" and "here". For example, in the initial stage of language development, language and food are in a very similar state, and it is difficult to say "lie" in words, but in the future, we can express "things that are not here" and "things that have not been seen" through language. The power of language also lies in the ability to express some imagined things and things that have never been seen through it.
lies are a sign that children's language development has gone a step further, and they can use languages such as "now" and "here" to describe things that have never been seen before. Parenting experts call this "the role of lies." Of course, there are also some lies that are not morally tolerant, but it is best to treat "children who tell lies" with a tolerant attitude.
Moreover, if the role of lies is considered, psychologists also advocate that adults should also actively cultivate this ability. Of course, it is not to let adults lie, but to tell children some legends or stories. If you think about it carefully, most legends and stories are fictional. In legends and stories, there are both things that seem to happen and absurd lies mixed with them. Moreover, these are all illusory worlds composed of language. Compared to the concept of "can't tell lies" that sticking to the mind, isn't it better to create a confusing fairy tale world with young children?
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