I am Noy. Click "Follow" in the upper right corner to share with you the information about [Story Insights] and [Personal Growth] every day.
"Don't be a full-time mother, otherwise you will lose your value." This is a sentence I have recently read on Zhihu.
Full-time mothers seem to be very idle, but in fact they are not relaxed at all, and the value behind it cannot be ignored.
A person’s value is determined by oneself, not an identity at a certain period of time.
01
Some people started to take care of their husbands and children in their 20s, while others were still pursuing their dreams in their 30s.
Some people have been working hard for the car house for the rest of their lives, while others have bought their favorite car and traveled around the beautiful mountains and rivers of the motherland.
people's thinking is changeable and their personalities are also changeable. Therefore, there is no certain standard for the good or bad of a person's life.
When I chose to be Little Neuy's mother, there was a destined to be a responsibility on my shoulders.
The baby you gave birth to is capable of having a child. There is no need to complain or count on anyone.
I have seen many videos, and the mother collapsed, and the child cried. As a mother, the first thing to do is to learn to control her emotions and grievances.
When the baby cries, he goes to coax him, and when the baby sleeps, he goes to work. He is busy enough to dilute many complex emotions.
raise your own children yourself. Others should be grateful for their help, not think they should.
02
One year old has the taste of one year old, the scenery one stop after another, the flowers bloom along the way, so are the roads in the future.
Everyone has the same lifestyle. As a post-00s, I have basically handed in advance the marriage and the task of having a baby.
This short 20 years of life tells me a truth, that is, people will only be liked when they are valuable.
Whether it is family affection or love, if there is no value, it may be nothing. What I said is quite cruel, but this is reality.
The freelance career I have chosen can temporarily enable me to make money while taking care of my children.
I cherish and enjoy it very much. While hard work is accompanied by sweetness, life still has its momentum.
03
I am a type of person who can't rest. I like to make trouble. I was originally planning to stop the update until after the confinement period, but I really couldn't help it.
My circle is very small now and there is basically no social connection. For me, writing is the best way to heal and relieve stress.
I am not sure if I can do the role of mother well, but I think in the process of parenting, teaching by example is more important than words.
In a limited time, find your love, develop your career, and determine your position.
In this rapid era, deep learning and enhance self-worth. If you are excellent, you can stand out no matter where you are.
04
Full-time mothers can temporarily have no income, but they cannot lose the ability to make money.
On the road to writing official accounts, I saw many mother bloggers always show off their income. When I claimed that I made a net profit of 50,000 yuan a month, I was actually very panicked.
Sometimes I fall into endless anxiety and deeply doubt myself if I am too weak?
Whenever anxiety comes, I will remind myself not to forget my original intention, maintain my determination, and clearly know what I want and what I want to do.
Live the present well, return to reality, let yourself go, and the rest is to wait for the flowers to bloom, and while writing freely to make money, you can also accompany your children. It’s so cool!
If you like my text, I hope you can give me a thumbs up! The little likes are the driving force for my continuous output, thank you!
Previous exciting content:
Self-disciplined vlog blogger is too fake, it is all posing for
"fake effort" almost ruined me
Are the poor not worthy of buying an iPhone?
Author introduction:
Nei, a post-00s free writer, likes words and wine, currently writing at home and selling wine in a tavern. Collect various emotional stories and focus on [self-media field] and [personal growth]
