"I'll ask you something, is it something bad, or is it bad, or is it bad, you can say whatever you want, I can change it, but I have my own time, I can't be free, I can't just study, study must be combined with work and rest!"
A girl about ten years old cried and told her conversation with her father, every sentence was heart-wrenching, the girl was clear in logic and quick in thinking, not only was she neither humble nor arrogant, but she also won the truth.
This is a conversation shared by a father with his daughter. The daughter sobbed and accused her father of not allowing him to play, saying that he still has any problems with playing after he finished his homework. Then the father said that his daughter has performed well recently and allowed her daughter to play for a while but she can't play for too long.
Before I finished speaking, my daughter asked back, "Has I played for the middle of the night?" "Is it recently? I'm doing very well every day."
Dad also asked his daughter to continue to persevere. The daughter cried and said that she was under great pressure, "If you have the ability, try my pressure."
The daughter finally warned her father, please cherish her child's childhood time.
Children are very smart nowadays, and they know much more than we did when we were young. The natural logic is clearer than when we were young. Yes, I am also a father. To be honest,
"Sometimes, as an adult, I transfer my anxiety and certain expectations to my children, subconsciously relies on my childhood "regrets" and I really long for my children to help me complete it."
It is undeniable that this father has a good education. I remembered that my father never chatted with me when he was a child and had no feelings at all. I envy those families who can joke with his parents like friends.
Children are happy now, because most parents have experienced the coldness of their relationship with their fathers, and they have a layer of diaphragm in their hearts, which is not good, and they understand the importance of parent-child relationship;
Children are also sad, often lonely and are "used" by their parents, using their children's childhood to exchange for the so-called starting line, laying the foundation for the future;
compromises children's innocent nature to fulfill the "other people's children" in the eyes of outsiders;
live in the expectation of parents. What is nice is that they know how to increase their value from elementary school, but in fact they slowly kill themselves.
is really different in the ages. When I remembered that what I feared the most was my father's majesty. I didn't have to do anything. As long as I stared at me, I would be obedient and obedient.
never take the initiative to ask yourself why you are naughty or where you did something wrong. Your parents' destiny will always be right. So when you grow up, your personality will always be a little humble, and you may even be ruthless, especially when you meet familiar elders or people who are better than you.
Think more from the child's standpoint, otherwise it would become like myself and my father before, but now it is like wearing moral cloaks and without bottom line constraints.
I remembered a widely-written sentence I often heard when I was a child: "Children are good or bad, care about communication and care."
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