At noon, the baby said to himself: "Baby likes aunt!" The mother immediately continued to ask: "Does the baby like mother?" The baby was silent and then changed the topic. I was embarrassed at that moment, and my mother should be a little disappointed.
A baby over two years old, companionship is the most important thing. Those novel toys, beautiful clothes, and delicious food can only bring her a moment of happiness. But the inner sense of security and happiness can only satisfy her if she is patient and cared for.
Now young parents forget what is most important, they long for their own life and free time. An ignorant child cannot cooperate with the adult rhythm. She will not cry or make trouble when you want to rest, will not stay quiet when you chat with friends, will not stop and cooperate with you when she is happy to play, and will not walk away tactfully when you think she is noisy and troublesome. Therefore, we have to start from the perspective of our babies, play and laugh with them, comfort and care, and answer questions and answer questions. Even if you can't take a lot of time, most of them have to be taken care of by the nanny, but at least you have to be more patient when you have time to accompany your baby, so that the baby can feel the love from his parents. If parents always want to live happily and freely in their own world, then the baby's world will also keep you out, and this barrier will always exist.
When I take care of my baby, I always say to my baby: Oh! Who bought such beautiful clothes (toys, delicious)? Mom! Mom really loves babies and always buys so many good things for babies. Does the baby like it? The baby loves his mother very much, right?
Does the baby miss his mother? Let’s video the mother and tell her baby miss her and ask when will the mother come back?
Baby, let’s go and see if the mother wakes up? Will you tell my mom that it’s OK to have a good morning? Baby, go and call mom for dinner! Baby, let’s call mom to go downstairs and play together!
Baby, dad has to go to work and make money to buy good things for the baby! All the money your father earns is given to your mother, please help your baby choose what he likes.
Baby dad is the most powerful in our family. Dad is the most powerful and can beat the big bad wolf away with one punch and protect the baby!
Baby dad is the smartest in our family. Dad can teach the baby a lot of knowledge, but many aunts don’t understand it! The baby will study hard in the future and surpass his father!
baby, let’s say good night to his parents! Kiss your parents and have a beautiful dream!
Similar words I keep saying every day, strengthen the weight of parents in the baby's heart, so that she can understand that parents are the people who love her the most and closest to her in the world.
It’s a pity that whoever is the one who is most with her and who takes care of her most patiently will still be the one who she is most attached to. And I really don’t want the baby to stick to me! I don’t want to go anywhere, just hold me, and I’m pestering me when I cook, and I don’t have time to wash and clean the laundry, so I can only wait until she goes to bed before doing things.
Therefore, you cannot have lunch break every day, and you are always washing clothes by hand at night, and you can only take a shower and go to bed at twelve o'clock. When the baby is sleeping, I can only use two small quilts to cover them. When I sleep, I always wake up from my dreams and cry. I can’t coax my sleep even if I pat it gently. Every time I pick it up and wrap the quilt in the living room, wander around the balcony, shaking gently and humming the lullaby until the baby is tired of crying again and falls asleep. For a while, I cried like this almost every night, starting for an hour, and the most exaggerated time was three hours. At first, the baby's parents wanted to coax her, but they couldn't get close to her, so the baby would cry even harder. In this way, I was the only one who coaxed the baby during the day and night, took care of everything she had to take care of, and all the housework.
is exhausted both physically and mentally! I can't hold on anymore! [Crying]
has been struggling and can't bear to leave this clingy baby, but I still decided to leave the household. I have a severe lack of sleep for a long time, and I feel shaking when I walk, and my head is so dizzy and painful. Who will pay for me if I am alone, and if I am hyped?
This is a simple home-cooked dish recently. There is less live fish, shrimp and seafood, because I don’t have time to go to the vegetable market every day, and it is not suitable to make a decision to buy some too expensive dishes.
often make some desserts, pastries, and Chinese pastries when you are free at home, and you don’t have time to make them in this store.
with some small handmade crafts made by the baby, and I made it into Lego.
