Children urinate and defecate anywhere?
Parents take their children to public places and need to educate their children to be civilized and polite.
Some behaviors of children urinating and defecating anywhere and making a fuss will indeed affect others.
spoils children as "naughty children", which also affects their future growth and development.
Recently, my school dad learned something,
Naughty kids were scolded for peeing in the scenic spot! Mom is pushed off the cliff when she protects her short-term?
Let’s take a look~
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Children urinate and defecate anywhere, which is normal in the eyes of some parents.
But for some people, it has become an unacceptable behavior, and the two sides are very likely to have conflicts. If
is serious, it will escalate the conflict and even threaten life.
On the day of the incident, Ms. Lu and his wife were taking photos without taking care of the child.
The child couldn't hold back his urine, so he "solved it on the spot" in the sword pool of the scenic area.
Mr. Fan and his wife who passed by first mocked, "Whose child is so uneducated?"
and ridiculed, "I don't know what kind of parents gave birth to such a child?"
When hearing such words, Ms. Lu was unhappy.
First, he had an argument with the other party verbally, and then kicked the other party. After
Someone saw a hand pushing Ms. Lu down the railing, but she didn't see whose hand it was.
Ms. Lu said, "I stood on a bench next to a pavilion, and both sides pointed at each other and cursed. At this moment, the man (Mr. Fan) pushed me down while I was not paying attention.
I was pushed under the cliff more than 20 meters high. There were all stones. I fainted from the pain at that time."
But the truth is not the case.
It turned out that Ms. Lu was standing on the gazebo seat with her back against the cylinder at the time and was arguing with Ms. Jin (Mr. Fan’s wife).
When Ms. Lu raised her legs and kicked Fan, her legs could not move backward due to railing restrictions and maintained balance, and fell backward outside the pavilion.
In other words, no one subjectively maliciously pushed her. It was Ms. Lu who accidentally fell off the cliff during the dispute, causing a first-degree minor injury.
Ms. Lu's behavior has also been criticized by many netizens.
First of all, everyone is responsible for civilized travel.
Secondly, isn’t it the fault of parents to raise or not teach?
She was in trouble and took action first.
Not to mention who caused her minor injury. The first-degree minor injury ranged from more than three million to more than one million. What is this kind of character not a ruffian?
Impulse is a devil, and originally pointed out that children cannot urinate casually is the right party.
However, due to the intensification of the conflict, the other party was seriously injured and became the compensationer.
But we also have to ask, is it really worth it because of a small matter that almost turned into a criminal case?
In fact, in China, children aged two or three years old can generally be forgiven as long as parents handle it in time.
It is not easy to control the urine and defecation of a child aged two or three.
If it causes disgust among others, parents should also apologize in time, after all, it is a public place.
As for the rise from verbal disputes to personal attacks, it is even less worth it.
Originally, traveling is about being happy, not causing trouble.
02
Children always have some unexpected situations, and parents should learn to solve them correctly.
On a bus, a young mother was carrying a boy of three or four years old.
The bus was driving smoothly, and the carriage was also very calm.
The boy suddenly shouted to his mother, "Mom, I want to pee."
The boy was talking while stomping his feet around. It seemed that he really couldn't help it.
The boy's mother ignored it.
The child took off his pants and started to be convenient.
Mom looked at it and acquiesced to the child's behavior. In an instant, liquid flowed in the carriage, and a pungent smell filled the carriage.
At this time, a girl who looked like a student on the bus covered her nose with her hands and said:
"People nowadays are really becoming less and less qualities. They just want to be convenient for themselves and do not consider other people's feelings!"
The boy's mother knew that she was talking about her own child, so she lowered her head quickly, and the little boy hid behind her mother.
You need to be civilized and polite to take care of your children in public.
The boy's mother's approach has made many people unacceptable.
The child is in a hurry to pee, and the bus cannot be stopped, and the carriage will be solved, and it may splash on others, and the driver will be even more difficult to clean.
Children urinate in their pants. If there are no spare pants, they will wear them wet and cold all the way. The child is very uncomfortable and is afraid that the child will catch a cold.
School father thinks that if parents take their children out, they need to take the bus.
needs to go to some hospitals, shopping malls and other public places, so they should make more corresponding preparations.
03
For this matter, this mother's approach is worth learning.
A netizen took a picture of this on the Xi'an subway. In the subway car, a woman with a child was wiping the child's urine stains on the ground of the car with a tissue.
Netizens said that the child did not pay attention to peeing in the carriage. In order not to affect other passengers, the mother quickly wiped the urine stains.
A seemingly unintentional action made everyone like it.
This parent was able to consciously wipe the urine stains of his children, which really sets an example for everyone.
Many parents with children said that in order not to affect everyone, they will also choose to bring their own bags when going out to solve the embarrassment.
passengers agreed: "Because she also knows that it is her baby after all, she has urinated and defecated in public places. It is quite good to wipe it clean, and she is very careful about the environment." The staff of the subway station at
also praised: "First of all, I am quite sure of this parent's approach."
subway station also praised: "First of all, I am quite sure of this parent's approach."
subway station staff also praised: "First of all, I am quite sure of this parent's approach."
subway station also praised: "First of all, I am quite sure of this parent's approach."
subway station staff also praised: "First of all, I am quite sure of this parent's approach."
subway station also praised: "First of all, I am quite sure of this parent's approach."
"I also call on everyone here that if there is such a situation, we parents can carry some handbags and tissues with you."
"If an emergency occurs, first clean up. If there is no way to clean up, you can also inform our staff when getting off the bus."
In fact, whether children have a civilized awareness is not a question of whether they are dirty or not, but whether this matter can be done.
When you allow the child for the first time, in his subconscious mind, it will be next time.
04 In fact, children's pants are not naughty and doing wrong things by themselves. just did something that the child couldn't help at the time when it was inappropriate. Peeing pants is not a question of whether children are disciplined, but a question of not having been cultivated in learning behavior and ability. At this time, parents' education methods for their children are particularly important. If the education method is inappropriate, the originally embarrassing problems may become even more difficult. Therefore, parents should be more patient in guiding their children, not forcing them, and not treating their children rudely. is a guiding light for children's growth journey.
Netizens commented
Children suddenly want to urinate and urinate, and adults can still bear it, but children can't bear it. ----Safe Waves 82
How big is it? It was even brought to the cliff and killed someone, which was unbearable for both of them. ----Liliu
Good habits are cultivated since childhood, and children cannot put everything first. ----Ballbeam6896
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