Today I was off topic.
There is a most hurtful saying that is called someone else's child. But we are all inevitably compared. Sometimes comparison is also a motivation, it depends on how to grasp the scale.
I treat my aunt as a role model and I also want to treat my aunt's children as a reference object for my children, but it is just a reference because there are too many differences in the actual situation.
First of all, my aunt is relatively calm and slow to work hard. I rarely hear her lose her temper and speak quickly, but I can't do it. Sometimes I'm so angry that I can't speak and express my thoughts. Although she and her husband, that is, my uncle, had a conflict, but their big goals were the same. His family also looked better and better in playing bad cards; but sometimes my husband wanted to play badly, which may be the reason why the times were different. People nowadays are indeed more tired than they did in previous years. Sometimes I can't convince him, so I can only be excellent and progress.
Regarding the children, my aunt's family is actually the condition of sending the children to private schools, but they have never sent them to them. The three children went to public primary schools in their hometown. They saved money and studied very seriously, and the effect was no worse than going to private schools. And my family is very likely to have to go to elementary school in Zhengzhou, so we will be under even greater pressure. My husband’s salary is just like that, and the salary in Zhengzhou is generally not high. As for me, I don’t have that much ability, and the accountant’s salary will not be able to hold on to the state of starvation in the future, so I still feel quite tired. But my husband is unwilling to follow his child back to his hometown to go to elementary school. He would rather let his child be left-behind children (•́へ•́ ╬)
, so I can only keep weighing the pros and cons. While I am taking care of my children full-time, I also need to improve my education, which is so expensive. Compared to not letting my mother-in-law take care of me, I just chose the least of the two. No one’s life is easy, no one’s pot is not ashes, come on! I don’t have much ability, I just want my child to have a better future!
