A few days ago, in order to help my child get up on time to find information, an article about cultivating children's self-discipline attracted me! The article mentions three manifestations of children's lack of self-discipline, and six aspects of how to cultivate children's self-discipline.
Now let me tell you about the "three manifestations of children's lack of self-discipline" in the article:
1: Staying in bed
It is difficult for my child to get up in the morning. The alarm clock I set myself, and I don't want to get up from 5:30 o'clock to 6:30 o'clock! It really makes me feel so troubled.
article clearly points out that this kind of bed sleep is a manifestation of poor self-discipline in children. This made me very nervous. My child's first item matched
2:
Seeing the word "dragged", my heart relaxed a little. My child did not have this habit
3: scattered
Seeing "scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scattered scatter I continue to read the content of the article. The article lists the following six aspects to cultivate children's self-discipline habits
First: Give children the opportunity to choose independently
The article points out that "parents always control and force their children, which will destroy the children's internal motivation and stimulate their children's rebellious psychology." Therefore, the article reminds parents to "give children the opportunity to choose"
So when we want children to do something, try not to force them, but give them the children the opportunity to choose.
Second: Avoid nagging and let children experience the consequences
Seeing this, I think I was caught! I really have to cover my face
Third: Use spiritual encouragement instead of material encouragement
, which is also hit! It is indeed like the article said, "Material rewards can only have a temporary effect."
The article tells parents that when children perform well in exams or living habits, "spiritual rewards" are better, such as "give the child a satisfactory smile or plan to travel together"
Fourth: Find more advantages in children and give praise
See this article, I think I am not a very bad parent. I have done this article, and I am very happy
Fifth: Step by step
The article here reminds parents, "Don't be anxious, let the child change slowly, don't urge the child, don't nag every day." I must pay attention to self-discipline and make my children truly self-disciplined!
No. 6: To solve the inner needs of children
Seeing this, I think I was also hit! As mentioned in the article, I "blindly demanding children may undermine their enthusiasm." I have changed myself since I saw this, and I must understand it first!
As my reading experience after reading it, is it the same as me? Friends are welcome to leave a message
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