Children's growth starts from exploring the outside world
The most exciting part of "Become You" is the most real side that several children show when dealing with people.
The little girl Anneken lives in Mongolia and usually has to migrate everywhere.
When we arrived at the new camp, the adults were busy setting up tents, and the family was rushing to set up tents before sunset. Everyone did their best, and even Xiao Anneken was no exception.
Mother gave her a difficult task - to pretend to be snow so that she can come back and melt into water to cook.
Because the clean snow was far away from the camp, she felt that she could not get the snow back alone, so she thought of a good way to find her good friend Tismen to help, so that things would be much easier.
This is also the first time that she is four years old to seek help other than her family, and it is a brand new breakthrough.
At a young age, I already understood the importance of teamwork . I understand that working with others is easier to accomplish things than being alone. This is something that many children and even adults should learn. Betty, who is about the same age as Anneken, has problems with interpersonal communication.
When she and her friends were playing in the zoo, she played the role of an adult, always asking for her companions in a imperative tone, which aroused the disgust of others.
After returning home, Betty simulated the situation at the zoo with toys.
Through review, she realized that what she said to her companions was a bit too much and it made people feel uncomfortable to listen.
So, she tried to use toys to explore how to deal with similar situations next time she encountered.
At this moment, Betty is understanding others. She can realize her mistakes and understand how to reflect on herself. This is a good beginning and a process of continuous growth.
The third little girl, Freya, made an amazing move, winning the hearts of her friends.
In a drama class, the teacher went out for a while for a while when the students started playing, making the clothing accessories all over the floor.
After the teacher came back, he asked one by one, and the children who were asked dared not admit it. Finally, the teacher said that if no one admitted it, the snack supply would be cancelled at noon.
When everyone silently lowered their heads, only Freya raised her hand and saved the snacks by helping the students.
In the world of children, helping people to help people quickly accumulate popularity.
How can parents truly understand their children?
Back to the initial question, how can parents truly understand their children?
First, parents should encourage their children to discover their talents and interests and cultivate them.
At the same time, we must make a correct and appropriate plan for the child so that the child can have a clear goal, which plays an important role in his future direction.
Secondly, let children have a broad vision and a broad mind.
Through interactions with the outside world, children can realize the boundary between themselves and others , learn to be empathetic, understand others, and learn love and happiness from interpersonal communication.
Finally, we should not close the door of our children, we must give our children the opportunity to understand the outside world.
Everyone is an individual, and even if the child is still young, he still needs private space. Let them be respected, bravely explore the world and become their unique selves. There are many interesting knowledge points in this documentary, such as comforting objects, gender awareness, rule awareness, etc.
It also shows the childhood of children from all over the world, which is a feast for the eyes. For example:
3-year-old children from Bayao Village, Borneo, have to overcome their fear of water and swim to play with friends' houses; Nepal 5-year-old children are chanting scriptures, but they often chant until they fall asleep; Mongolian children have started learning to ride horses and shoot archery since they were young; Japanese children go out alone to buy things at the age of 3.
Growth is diverse. Parents should broaden their horizons and love and respect their children with all their hearts so that they can live a happy life.
