The man stood up. I thought he was returning the toy to the child. After all, it is inevitable that the child is naughty, but what I didn't expect was that not only did he not do so, but instead walked to the child, slapped him hard, and slapped him to the ground. From the survei

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brushed a heart-wrenching video.

On October 3, in Zhanjiang, Guangdong, a 2-year-old child was playing in the living room. At that time, a man was looking at his cell phone in the living room. He accidentally threw the toy on him.

The man stood up. I originally thought he was returning the toy to the child. After all, it is inevitable that children are naughty, but what I didn't expect was that not only did not do this, but instead walked to the child, slapped him heavily, and slapped him to the ground.

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From the surveillance video, it can be clearly seen that the child is hitting the back of his head, which is very thrilling.

suddenly encountered an accident. The child cried in pain. He stood up and subconsciously wanted to find someone to hug him. The man ignored him until a woman appeared and hugged the child. The video ended abruptly.

Afterwards, there was news that the man was the child's uncle. On National Day, my uncle went to his mother-in-law's house to celebrate the festival, and then this happened.

According to Jing News Video, after the nephew fell, the adults also came over to ask what was going on. The uncle lied that the boy fell down by himself.

After the incident, the adults checked the surveillance and found out the truth of the matter, and the child's parents then called the police.

Not long after, the police came to the door. Seeing that the matter was exposed, my uncle did not hide it like this anymore. He admitted that he had beaten the child, but said that he was just a subconscious reaction.

When he heard his answer, some netizens joked:

"His reflective arc has grown several steps away."

's reason is very crappy and infuriating. He did not admit his mistake in the end, and even threatened his children's parents before being taken away by the police. His bandit-like appearance was directly scolded by the police.

In the end, he was administratively detained by for 515 days and fined 1,000 yuan.

After the incident happened, countless netizens were calling for the child’s aunt to divorce.

"Such a person who takes a serious attack on his child for no reason is really terrible."

Some netizens are also worried about whether their aunt will encounter family violence in the future. It is said that the uncle is also a famous Taekwondo coach. Thinking of some scenes that may happen in the future, many people are a little scared.

Not many people are not afraid of meeting such a gangster-like irritable man.

There are a lot of people on the Internet analyzing whether my aunt should divorce. Most of them persuaded her to divorce, but according to insiders, the aunt and he just received the certificate and had not held a wedding, so I think they would not divorce in the end.

But some remarks on the Internet have also caused quite a lot of trouble for her. I can only say that everyone has their own choices, and maybe she is mentally prepared to be responsible for her choice.

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A few days ago, I just chatted with a fan who suffered domestic violence. Her situation was also very complicated, but she did not choose to divorce in the end.

Her life after marriage was not satisfactory. Her husband was addicted to gambling and often abused her domestically after losing the bet.

"I have been suffering for more than ten years, and he still knows how to bet now, so I am so scared that I don't feel safe in life."

His husband doesn't go to work, and she has to go to work, and after she gets home, she has to cook, wash and do housework for him, and occasionally suffers from violence from the other party.

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"I'm too tired."

She also wanted to divorce and even had the idea of ​​suicide, but she stopped it at the last moment, mainly for her son.

"I don't want my son to have no mother, so I live to this day."

even she said: "As long as he doesn't bet, I'm willing to beat him. "

After listening to it, I felt a suffocation that came to my face through the screen, and I felt really uncomfortable.

I advised her to divorce. After all, such a marriage is in name only, and two people live a worse life than one person. Since she can work and support herself, why should she suffer this kind of pain again?

As an outsider, I know Many people can say something similar to me, but she actually understands the truth, but she has too many concerns.

Or, she has been tortured too carefully in this way. She told me:

"My son has been admitted to university. I know that a family like ours has a great impact on my son, but fortunately, my son has extra points to study art and studied in the second grade, and I am already very content. "

" My son is old and he is still quite obedient. Now I often ask him not to bet anymore, otherwise no girl will dare to be our daughter-in-law in the future. ”

Her second half of her life has been completely bound to her son. She is afraid that her divorce will have a bad impact on her son. She is afraid that her husband will continue to be bet like this and will affect her son's marriage. She is trying to change her husband. She would rather suffer more than to protect her son from going smoothly.

I don't know that her son is seeing his mother What would happen when I say this? But as a son, I was already filled with tears in my eyes.

It’s not that she doesn’t want to divorce, but that she can’t, and dares.

I’m afraid of affecting the children, afraid of not knowing how to live after divorce, afraid of husband affecting the son, afraid of not seeing hope, and afraid of a strange lifestyle...

I can feel countless fears from her description, so she subconsciously chose a lifestyle that she is familiar with. At least she has gradually seen hope.

For some people, divorce may not be that simple.

I respect her, so I feel very distressed. Such a mother should have possessed her. Have a better life and life, but I can't rewrite it.

Many times, as outsiders, aren't we all like this?

I can't agree with her point of view, but I respect her life and sincerely hope that her son can bring her a better life in the future, and I believe she can wait. html l7

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Many people hate violence and cannot recognize any form of violence, especially domestic violence.

So when I see others trapped in a mud pond and unwilling to extricate themselves, I feel a little distressed and a little bit disappointed, so most people on the Internet are When you see violent incidents, you will feel angry, and this can actually be empathized with.

Their purpose is ultimately just to advise: Don’t compromise violence any more!

Many times, your every move and experience will not only affect yourself, but also have a huge impact on your children.

Unwilling to divorce does not mean that we must continue to endure and fight against the other party's violence. Many people have problems that are easy to change in nature and difficult to change in nature. It is impossible for a prodigal son to turn back all of a sudden.

After all, if he has such a high level of awareness, he will not do such vulgar things again and again.

If he makes a decision, please protect yourself.

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But in fact, what I want to say more is: Stay away from this kind of people!

If God gives you the chance to leave, then you must cherish it. It is best not to have too deep contact from the beginning.

Don’t put too much psychological pressure on yourself. If you have the chance to leave, you will only be affected with your children.

Don’t try to raise a normal child in a violent environment. It’s really difficult.

If you seize the opportunity to re-select from the beginning, the ending will be very different.