In fact, this situation is not unfamiliar to mothers. Isn’t this what is often called “wake up from the ground”?
Some parents suffer deeply, thinking that might as well sleep well with , so as not to put the baby in bed once and wake up once. Just coax the baby to sleep for a night.
Regarding this idea, lazy mothers suggest that new parents should stop in time. The main reason is that holding the baby for a long time will affect the development of the baby's spine.
The secondary reason is that it is a bit costing my parents.
The reasons why babies wake up from the ground cannot be separated from these reasons.
★Baby's physical development affects
Baby's growth and development in the mother's belly for ten months, but in fact, there are still many areas in the body that are not well developed, resulting in some "deficiencies" when the baby is born.
For example, the nerves that regulate body temperature are not perfect, and the baby is easily affected by external temperature; the gastrointestinal function is not perfect enough, so the digestive ability is poor; the baby's vestibular function is immature, so the baby's ability to balance the body is also poor...
And one of the reasons why the baby wakes up from the ground is that The vestibular function of the baby is not perfect enough, which causes the baby to not control his body's balance well. . When the parents put the baby on the bed, especially when hanging in the air, the baby's body will be in an unbalanced state and wake up.
Of course, this situation will alleviate as the baby continues to grow and develop. When the baby's vestibular develops, the baby will not wake up for this reason.
★Baby’s sense of security is insufficient
The baby wakes up as soon as it is placed on the bed. Another reason is that the baby lacks sense of security.
We know that before the baby is born, he stays in that narrow uterus, wrapping the fetus tightly. Although it is very dark, it is very warm. You can always hear the mother's heartbeat, the sound of blood vessels flowing and the sound of gastrointestinal peristalsis, even when you are sleeping.
If you meet your father after get off work, you can still hear your parents discussing yourself. It is really comfortable and comfortable.
But after birth, the baby leaves the familiar environment and needs to be familiar with a new environment again. Leaving those familiar things will make the baby feel very insecure and not even sleeping well.
It’s okay to say when you hold it, at least there is a warm embrace and a familiar heartbeat. When parents put the baby on the bed and sleep, they suddenly get out of the environment that can comfort themselves, which will cause the baby to wake up.
★The baby is suddenly "stimulated"
If the parents stimulate the baby while putting the baby in bed to sleep, the baby will suddenly wake up because of this sudden stimulation.
For example, when the baby is born, there are several original reflections , including step reflection, foraging reflection, gripping reflection, shock reflex, etc.
: The shock reflex is a type that is very easy for babies of small-month age to appear, that is, When the baby is suddenly stimulated to a certain extent, the baby will open his arms and stretch his legs straight and thrust, and will be awakened due to this sudden "change".
If parents put the baby hard on the bed, there is a vibration on the bed or suddenly hear a very noisy sound, they may experience shock reflexes, "scaring" the sleeping baby.
However, not every baby is like this. There are also some angel babies who can throw them on the bed after falling asleep.
There are also some babies who become obedient after being baptized by time. Just like my baby, he woke up three months ago, and after three months, he could throw him into the bed at will, but it was only for the mother to throw him away.
Of course, even if you throw it away casually, there are certain requirements.
1. Add a sense of security to your baby
It is normal for a baby to come to a new environment and feel insecure. Even adults will have this situation. If you want to solve the problem of your baby's lack of security, the most effective way is to help your baby increase his sense of security.
has many ways to increase the sense of security for the baby:
①Use touching for the baby. When touching, it can stimulate the baby's touch, promote the baby's gastrointestinal motility, improve the baby's sleep, and promote the development of the baby's central nervous system . Chat with the baby while touching, and let the baby feel the comfort of the parents and increase the baby's sense of security.
②Interact more with the baby . When the baby is awake, you can chat with the baby more often, and when the baby is crying, you can respond and comfort the baby in time.
③Let your baby listen to more familiar sounds , such as the music you often hear in the uterus, or the rustling sound of the TV, the sound of the washing machine when it rotates, etc.
④ You can also wrap the baby in swaddling , wrap the baby's small body, and turn the large space into a small space, so that the baby's hands, feet and body cannot "sustain" to stretch, just like in that narrow uterus.
When the baby feels so safe, it is not so easy to wake up.
2. Grasp the time and put the baby in the bed
" American Pediatric Association Parenting Encyclopedia " said that every period of sleep in a newborn has almost the same length of rapid eye movement sleep and non-rapid eye movement sleep, which are drowsy, rapid eye movement sleep, light sleep, deep sleep and deep sleep. This pattern will change in 2 to 3 months. After
, the baby can quickly enter the deep sleep stage of the Flying REM sleep period.
actually doesn’t have to think so complicatedly. You can simply divide your baby’s sleep into light sleep and deep sleep . If the baby enters deep sleep, it will not be so easy to wake up.
So we can put the baby on the bed after the baby enters deep sleep.
That is to say, when we see the baby who is asleep relaxing his limbs, his fingers are completely loosened, his eyes are closed, and his breathing is even and stable, his parents can put the baby on the bed and sleep.
From the time the baby is asleep to the time these symptoms may take 20 minutes to , just be patient and wait.
3. When putting the baby on the bed, you should "in order"
However, even if the baby enters a deep sleep state, you should also pay attention to "technology" when putting the baby on the bed, otherwise the baby will be awakened.
① When putting the baby on the bed, start with the feet, then the butt, then the waist, and finally the head and neck. This way, it can prevent the baby from waking up due to immature vestibular function.
② When putting the baby on the bed, your hands and feet must be light, and when putting it, our bodies should be close to the baby, so that the baby will not feel that his body is "empty".
③ When the baby sleeps on the bed, slowly pull his hands out and put them on the baby's body, and then slowly leave the body.
When the baby is put away and has not woken up, the parents can retreat.
When the baby is sleeping, he can roll up the quilt and put it next to the baby, pretending that someone is sleeping next to the baby, but never put some small objects on the baby's bed, especially small towels, to prevent the baby from pulling it on the baby's face when he moves randomly.
to the end, the baby's wake-up situation will gradually ease after the baby's 3-6 months . Parents should not be too anxious. If it is too hard, you can change people to coax the baby to sleep. Never lose your temper at the baby, otherwise it will aggravate the baby's lack of security and wake up.
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