greets him politely and can assist children in forming personality qualities such as group, heroism, and initiative. The "Guidelines for Learning and Development of Children Aged 3-6" mentioned: "Children aged 3-4 should be willing to play with children and be willing to engage with familiar younger generations. Adults can use the opportunity of visiting relatives, visiting friends' homes, or visiting guests to encourage children to contact and interact with others." Therefore, parents should inspire their children to greet others politely, assist their children to gain a sense of accomplishment in interpersonal communication, and establish confidence in interpersonal communication.
Cultivation Purpose:
is willing to say hello to others and know the polite method when saying hello.
knows polite titles to different people and polite words to say hello.
Skills and formulas:
Acquaintance comes over and smiles quietly at him; look in his eyes; give him a title and say hello.
Highlights:
Acquaintances come over and smile quietly at him
Parents should let their children know that they should take the initiative to say hello when they see an acquaintance, and do not hide in a bad sense or pretend not to be invisible. This is impolite behavior. In addition, you should have a smile when greeting. Parents can experience the inner feelings brought by smiles and not smiling with their children, so that their children can realize the meaning of smiles in interpersonal communication.
Looking at his eyes
Parents should notify their children that when they say hello to others, their eyes should look at each other, so that they can be polite and cannot look around. Parents can use role exchange games to guide their children to experience the importance of eye contact when greeting.
title and say hello
First, parents should learn common polite titles in life with their children, and at the same time they can find photos with relatives and friends, and stop practicing with their children; secondly, parents should understand that they should not call their children by their younger generations directly, nor by shouting at them, and must say politely in a nice voice; finally, when they meet their classmates or good friends, they should also take the initiative to say hello. At this time, they can directly call the other party's name or say "hello", but they cannot call others in the way of "hey" and "heat".
(excerpted from " Must-read for parents" Parenting Magazine 2023 Magazine Subscription https://www.zazhipu.com/)
