As the saying goes, "Girls change in age", as they grow up slowly, girls give people a very big change.
Of course, this manifestation is not just a change in appearance, but more of a physical difference in body.
When girls go to junior high school, they will enter puberty. During this process, everyone will also have a menarche.
For some girls nowadays, they are still a little shy when facing such things, and sometimes they even misunderstand whether there is a problem with them.
2-year-old Wenwen came home from school and suddenly found that her pants were dyed red by . She felt very afraid of . She didn't know what was going on, and even wondered if she was sick? Are you going to die?
Although the school had popularized similar knowledge before, she always felt that this matter was far away from her, so she didn't take it to heart. When she really encountered it, she panicked.
Because she was too scared, she told her mother about this. The mother comforted her and said "This is a period of menstruation, which is a normal physiological phenomenon for girls. Congratulations to our Wenwen for growing up and becoming a woman. We must protect ourselves in the future." After
, Wenwen's mother also popularized a lot with her daughter, and some precautions about the things she paid for after menstruation, so that her daughter can clearly understand her own changes and how to deal with her menstruation in the future.
Mother's words instantly soothe Wenwen's panic. Wenwen is very glad that his menstrual period came at home. If he encounters this at school, he really doesn't know what to do.
Many parents always feel that their children are very precocious now. Logically speaking, such things must be clear. But in fact, every child is still worried and afraid when they really encounter things. Therefore, parents must do a good job in popularizing science and education in this regard.
Generally speaking, girls’ first menstruation age will be around 12 years old. Some children may be earlier, while others may be later, and the latest one will not exceed 18 years old.
Therefore, during this period, parents must pay attention to their children's physical changes and instill physiological knowledge into their children.
Related psychologists have shown that if parents know how to comfort and take care of their children during the first stage of menarche, they will become more confident in the future.
The first time my daughter has had her "menstrual period", mothers must tell her these 3 sentences, which are very important for the growth of children
The first sentence: Menstruation proves that you are very healthy, this is a sign of growing up
Some mothers will not express any emotions after they learn that their children have menstruation, because in their eyes, this is just a physiological change, and every girl will experience it.
In fact, for the child, she will still be a little scared and even feel a little shameful, so parents should give some explanation.
Tell your daughter Menstruation proves that you are healthy, This is a sign of a girl's growth and can be regarded as an important manifestation of adolescence. Every girl is the same as you, so don't be embarrassed.
Only when the child understands this truth can she calmly accept the changes in her body.
Sentence 2: Pay attention to hygiene and diet during menstruation
Girls are weak during menstruation, so you must tell your daughter to pay attention to protecting their private parts.
For example, tell your daughter to change the sanitary napkin during menstruation, try to choose a shower during menstruation, do not exercise vigorously, and pay attention to keeping warm to avoid catching a cold.
In addition, avoid eating cold food during physiological periods, and never take it seriously because you are young. This is related to your physical health
The third sentence: It is very important to protect yourself
The last and most important point. When mothers say these words, they must tell their daughter very seriously.
Menstruation proves that the body is becoming more mature and has the ability to give birth. When getting along with the opposite sex, you must keep a distance and be alert, and at the same time tell your daughter what not to do with the opposite sex to enhance your daughter's awareness of protection.
For example, tell your daughter that the private parts of your body cannot be contacted by the opposite sex, and do not be alone in the same space as the opposite sex. If you have to be with the opposite sex, you should also open the door. This is a protection for yourself.
In addition, we also need to conduct a certain amount of sex education , and learn how to refuse if someone violates himself? Only in this way can the child not have any accidents, which will make the parents feel very painful and even affect her later life.
However, Adolescent children are more rebellious . If they are "preaching" to their children with great sincerity, the children will inevitably feel annoyed and even go against their parents, which will be worse.
Instead of risking being on the opposite side of your child, it is better to give your child a book "Private Book of Adolescent Girls". I believe every girl will be very interested in this kind of book.
Because this book can solve all the problems of girls during puberty . For example, after entering puberty, girls start to develop acne and become unconfident, have hair on their armpits and lower body, and change in their chests. What should I do if my "good friends" come every month, how to protect my privacy, and how to guide and solve them, etc.
This book can be called an "encyclopedia" on the growth path of adolescent girls. It is a book tailored for adolescent girls. The introduction in the book is very comprehensive, including The 10 major problems on the growth path of adolescent girls, and 63 solutions are given , so that adolescent girls are not confused and have no worries to grow.
Influenced by traditional concepts, our Chinese parents are relatively restrained and often unwilling to talk to their children about such problems. This book serves as a "bridge", which can replace what parents want to say but are embarrassed to say . At the same time, it also solves the problem that children want to ask but are embarrassed to ask .
Therefore, it is recommended that parents with girls at home read this parenting guide, learn ahead of time, and do adolescent prevention, and their children will benefit greatly in the future.
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