Children have these 3 "special situations"
Kindergarten teachers will take special care, parents please compare!
In the minds of parents, children always need care and care. Therefore, in life, there are always many parents who have protected their children very strictly and cared for them very carefully since their children were born. There are even mothers. Even if someone at home helps take care of their children, their mothers will choose to quit their jobs and take care of their children because they are worried. So when the child leaves home for the first time and goes to kindergarten, parents will be full of concern about their children and are very worried that they will not be able to take good care of themselves in kindergarten. Therefore, many parents put their expectations on their teachers, and always hope that kindergarten teachers can "look at their children differently"
My best friend Xiao D has this trouble. Xiao D quit his job since the child was born and took care of his children wholeheartedly at home. In a blink of an eye, the child has reached the grade of kindergarten. However, Xiao D was particularly worried. He was always afraid that his children would not be able to adapt in kindergarten and worried that their children would be bullied. Especially when she thought that her child didn't have many people to come into contact with at home, she was very timid and shy. Now she suddenly went to kindergarten and not only had to leave her mother's arms, but also had to learn to take care of herself and get along well with the teachers and classmates around her. Xiao D really felt anxious for the child just by thinking about it.
However, anxiety is anxiety, worry is worry, little D cannot tie the child around him all the time, the child always has to grow up, so when school starts, little D still sent the child to kindergarten. As expected, on the first day of school, the child was very uncomfortable and cried and asked for his mother. So before school was over, little D picked up the child from the teacher in advance.
So Xiao D was even more worried about the child's going to kindergarten. Finally, after thinking about it, Xiao D planned to ask the teacher to "special care" her child, and also sent a lot of sincere words to the teacher and thank the teacher. However, she only received a very short answer from the teacher. The teacher said, "If the children are handed over to us, we will do our best to take care of and guide them. Don't worry." Apart from that, the teacher didn't say much. This made Xiao D very worried, will the teacher take care of her children?
In fact, many parents have this kind of feeling of hoping that the teacher will take special care of their children by looking at them differently. So will the teacher take special care of some children? The answer is yes, especially for children with these three special circumstances, teachers will pay more attention to them, and parents can compare them on their own.
Children with special conditions in their bodies
A friend's child has a bad heart since he was a child. Therefore, since the child went to kindergarten, all teachers have taken special care of her children, and they do not need friends to take the initiative to ask for it. But in the words of friends, "I would rather my children be healthy. The teacher treats her the same way as ordinary children, than to such special care."
Indeed, for teachers, they often spontaneously give some special care to these children with special conditions in their bodies, but I believe that most parents are actually helpless about such care. Compared to being taken care of, they hope that their children can be healthy. So here, parents should also be reminded that if the child has discomfort, especially a relatively hidden problem, he must say hello to the teacher. It may not be a serious illness such as heart disease. If allergies are allergic, you should also report to the teacher in advance and ask the teacher to take special care to avoid danger.
Individual children with special circumstances
Each child has different personalities and adaptability, so the performance of going to kindergarten is also different. For example, some children have severe separation anxiety, and they cry and make noise when they go to kindergarten, and eating and drinking water are problems. Then the teacher will take care of more, or some children have been favored since childhood, domineering at home, and are very unfriendly to teachers and classmates, so the teacher will take care of them more.
However, parents should also pay attention to that if the child's situation is serious and lasting, then it is actually a burden for both teachers and children. Over time, not only will the teacher become bored, but the child's physical and mental development will also be affected. Therefore, it is best for parents to cultivate their children's individual qualities before their children go to school. For this kind of "special care", it is better not to let it happen to their children.
Social children with special circumstances
I believe many parents have this experience. When they were young, if there were acquaintances or relatives of parents among the teachers, they would become more particular about their children. So it is the same today. If the family has such social relationships, naturally, the children can receive better attention and care at school.
But parents should also pay attention to that such attention and care are often two sides for children. They may have a positive impact on the physical and mental development of the children. At the same time, excessive attention and care may also have a negative impact on the children. Parents must grasp the degree.
In short, children with the above three special circumstances will indeed be more caring in kindergartens, but no matter what, in fact, if children want their children to truly adapt to kindergartens, gain the love of teachers and look at each other, then it is best for parents to start from their children themselves, cultivate good personalities and good habits, so that children have good social skills, expression skills, and improve their emotional intelligence skills.
Here I recommend parents to prepare a series of picture books for their children "Falling in Love with Expression". This set of books is specially prepared for children aged 2-6, helping them shape good personalities and good habits, cultivating their expression and social abilities, and promoting their IQ, EQ, and Reverse Quotes.
The whole set of books is 8 volumes, each volume is an independent theme content, which can start from the reality of children's life, and use the form of storytelling to set a good example for children to grow up, help children learn to express themselves correctly from the small stories in the book, learn to overcome and manage their negative emotions, correct children's minor personality problems and bad growth habits, make children more independent and confident, and better at socializing, so that children can better adapt to kindergarten life and gain the likes and recognition of teachers and classmates.
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