A person has a high emotional intelligence, which means that this person is very smart. A child has a high emotional intelligence, which means that the family education method is good. Many people hope that their children have a high emotional intelligence, which is more conducive to their children's future life, study and work. So, as a parent, how should they improve their children's emotional intelligence ?
First, parents should be a good example.
What parents usually show has an impact and effect on their children. Therefore, as the guides of their children's lives, parents should do what they say and set a good example for their children when they get along with their children.
Second, parents should be positive.
The emotions of parents affect the child all the time. In daily life, parents should have a positive attitude and not always complain in front of their children. Only when parents have a good attitude can the children have a lively, generous, happy, and caring good emotions and personality. Parents should also let their children understand: what occasions should be and what emotions should they have, so that their children can control their emotions themselves.
Third, observe the psychological changes of children.
Parents should communicate more with their children. Parents should think more about their children's requirements. If they are unreasonable and cannot be satisfied, they should explain to their children the reason why they cannot be satisfied. Parents must not ignore their children’s emotional changes and enter their children’s hearts. You can't let your child do whatever he wants, and you can't even beat him.
Fourth, let children contact others more.
If a guest comes to your home, parents should let their children know how to get along with their elders. After the elders come, how to receive them. They should learn to serve tea and water to their elders.
Fifth, let children have more contact with other children.
Let children make more friends. When children come into contact with other children, children can learn how to get along with each other. Parents can invite their children to play at their homes, and encourage their children to make new friends. Parents should tell their children to learn to share with others and live in harmony.
In short, emotional intelligence is very important in future life. Children with high emotional intelligence have more advantages in getting along with others in the future. They are the key factor for children's future success and should be highly valued by parents.
